The Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda's that Lead To Relationship Disasters...
Wouldn't it be wonderful to have a time machine to be able to turn back the clock to make the changes that might cause things to turn out a little (or a lot) differently?
These are the "woulda," "coulda," "shoulda's" that most of us carry around with us to some degree or the other.
So if you could go back in time, what would you do differently?
One woman told us that she should have talked to her partner before she left the relationship--to see if they could work out their issues. She's now in this agonizing place of living with the "shoulda's"--still trying to decide if she did the "right" thing by leaving.
A man said that he and his wife would have more passion in their relationship if only they had more time outside of work and caring for extended family members.
Another woman told us that when she and her husband disagree or he feels "stepped on" for some reason, they get into a communication pattern they can't get out of. He reacts angrily, she responds that she feels hurt and he gets silent.
He says enough has been said and she feels even more hurt. She said that an issue that could have been resolved in a matter of minutes will take a day or more to resolve--if at all.
Along with these people--we're guessing that there are some woulda, coulda, and shoulda's that you have about previous relationships or one or more relationships you are currently in.
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