We just released a brand new program called "Magic Relationship Words That Wake Up Desire" that is a must have for anyone who wants more spark in their relationship.

This is the 2nd "Magic Words" program we've created to date and what's unique about this one is it focuses specifically on how you can create more passion in a spouse, partner or lover.

What's amazing about this program is how quickly and easily it is to wake up desire in your relationship just by using a few "magic words" instead of the words you normally use that are not so magical.

What if it really could be this easy to wake up desire?

Go check out this new "Magic Words That Wake Up Desire" program now...

The other day, Otto decided to get his hair cut at the barber shop and he couldn't wait to get home to tell Susie about the woman with the "balloon phobia" that he met there.

If you didn't know there was such a thing as a "balloon phobia," don't think you're alone.

We didn't either until Otto's trip to the barber a few days ago.

While this might seem to having nothing to do with creating and keeping a close, connected relationship, keep reading and we'll tie it all together for you...

But first, here's what happened...

When Otto got out of the car, he noticed a woman on the sidewalk looking into the barber shop window with an anxious look on her face.

He assumed that she was waiting for a hair cut and asked her if all of the barbers were busy. She told him that she was outside because there was a "screaming kid" inside.

Then she got to the real reason that she was standing outside...She had a "balloon phobia."

She told Otto that any time she's near a balloon-- not the mylar kind--she freaks out.

Since we had never heard of a balloon phobia we looked it up and it's actually called globophobia.

In this video you're going to learn

The #1 reason for Break Ups, Separation and Divorces...

How to predict a break up or divorce...

Why passion dies...

How to tell if your relationship will survive...

How to say "No" in the bedroom without Bruising Your Partner's Ego...

AND how to keep the spark alive forever in a relationship.

We'll let you know when the video is available. (should be in a couple of days.)

Now, we want to talk to you about...

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5 relationship tricks that make love stick...

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The other day, a man asked us for more information about our book and audio program "Should You Stay or Should You go?"

As we talked to him, he told us that he really didn't want to leave his relationship but he was having a difficult time finding ways to revive the love they once had.

He asked us if we knew any "tricks" that he could use to help him fall back in love.

While we wouldn't classify these ideas we're about to share with you as "tricks"or "magic dust"...

What we will tell you is if you consistently do these 5 things we're going to talk about, you'll create a better, more caring and more loving relationship that can truly last.

Here are 5 relationship tricks that make love stick...

It's an ingredient that most couples who keep their relationships strong, growing and passionate over many years would say they have. They might not use the specific word we're using to describe this "ingredient" but the meaning is the same.

What's this missing ingredient in many intimate relationships that we're talking about?

It's doing what it takes to make the relationship sacred to both people.

The two of us learned the hard way that in order for a relationship, especially an intimate one, to thrive and grow throughout the years, you have to treat it as sacred and treat the other person as your best friend.

Neither one of us knew the meaning of "sacred relationship" and certainly didn't do what it took to have one in our previous marriages--and both of those marriages ended in divorce.

When the two of us got together, creating a sacred relationship was very important to us and we have lived it ever since. It's the juice that keeps our relationship passionate and alive for over 15 years (as of this writing).

Our definition of "sacred relationship" is that we hold our relationship above all others. We live from that place in our daily lives, looking for the good rather than tearing each other down.

By making our relationship sacred and living in this place, our relationship continues to be better and better, instead of dying a slow painful death as many relationships do.

We focus on how we can make our relationship even better and not just on how we can co-exist.

If you're interested in putting more "sacred" in your relationship, here are 3 ways that we use every day in our relationship...

Have you ever been in a bad mood that hangs around forever and you feel like nothing's going right in your life--especially your relationship?

We all get into that kind of mood every now and then but when it hangs on--and hangs on--and hands on--that's when your relationships start to suffer.

Whether your mood is a reaction to someone else's foul mood, to a situation that seems "unfixable" or is in part the result of hormonal changes or physical pain in your body...

There are a few ways that you can learn and practice that will help you to get out of that mood so you can have more of what you want...but first, we want to ask you a question...

What happens when there's a problem in your relationship or life and what do you normally do?

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If you're like a lot of people, when there's a challenge and you want to make it better, you normally do one of these ...
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*You talk, talk, talk about what's wrong and what you want changed--and the more you talk, the more the other person shuts down and doesn't listen to you

*You remember what's happened over and over in the past and you tell yourself something like--"What the use, it'll never get better"

*You clam up and pull away from this person and then complain to your friends about your problem or situation

If you can relate to any of these (and we can because we've done them all in the past), here's what you need to know...

None of these things you've been doing have worked, right?

But you keep doing it over and over--hoping that THIS time it will work--but it never does.

Or maybe whatever you do works to some degree to help the problem but there's so much stress involved that you wish there's a better way.

Well, there is.

Here's what we've learned...

It's very steamy.

And because our mission is to help you create amazing, lasting love without losing yourself, this project fits right in!

(BTW, if you haven't gotten our "Magic Relationship Words" yet and you need some help in the communication department, be sure to check it out.

We strongly believe that reigniting passion and intimacy in a relationship is a path to lasting love--and the words you use, as well as your intention behind those words, can certainly smooth the path to renewed excitement and connection.

Here's one of those phrases that we've discovered that increases intimacy...

"What happened to the man/woman I used to be with?"

You feel like you've been blind-sided in your relationship and you don't know what happened.

Read one woman's question who purchased our "Automatic Attraction Secrets" program and our answer if this has ever been (or is now) your question as well...

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"Dear Susie and Otto,

"I listened to the first audio file about automatic attraction. What I am surprised about so far is a fact that seems
so important to me and that is that for me anyway, and I think for many, many people is that a strong physical
attraction between two people is what brings them together, and after 6 months of mad passionate love making then the two people are deeply intertwined.

"Then after that time period or maybe longer or shorter?? then we discover what the person is really like, (emotionally unavailable, can not communicate, is cheap with money, whatever the problem may be).

"But in the beginning, we do NOT KNOW THESE THINGS....and that is why the only relationships that seem to WORK
are those that begin as friendships.

"I know there are exceptions to this as well. but how is one to know when the two people in the beginning are feeling 'so in love' that they only put their best foot forward ...none of this was discussed even during that first audio...What are your thoughts on this?"

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You make a really important point and it's a great question--one that we love to talk about quite a lot...

After the "honeymoon" period of a relationship, then what? How do you keep the spark alive even when you wonder who this stranger is that you're with.

We wanted to let you know that we just posted a video "How to Deal With Jealousy in a Love Relationship" and you owe it to yourself to watch it right now.

In this video, we give you the one master key to solving jealousy in your life. If you want to stop jealousy, you must do this one thing or you'll have to deal with the green-eyed monster forever.

If you're jealous and you're tired of trying to hide it or pretend it isn't there, it's time for you to take action and do something about it.

Jealousy can be stopped and be sure to find out what that first all-important step is by clicking on over and watching "How to Deal With Jealousy in a Love Relationship."

If you've got a case of the ol' green eyed monster and you've got big time jealousy issues--it's enough to drive you and your partner batty.

This is just one of many reasons why if you've got jealousy issues--you've got to get help fast.

We've got quite a few fantastic resources for how to deal with jealousy but here we want to give you some practical tips for getting rid of jealousy right now.

Why You Should Deal With Jealousy Sooner Rather Than Later...

Dealing with jealousy now-- rather than later is a really good idea for several reasons and here are a couple
of the most important.

You want to learn how to deal with your jealousy not because now only will it keep you and your partner or lover from getting as close as possible but it could cause your partner to get so upset and frustrated with you that they just want to take the first exit out of your relationship and leave you all alone.

That's why you want to deal with your jealousy now, so you make sure they don't get so upset and angry that they just bail on you.

Here are 3 tips for overcoming jealousy fast...

She loves the music, she loves the story and apparently so do other people because the exercise room was packed with men and women.

Maybe because we were preparing for a presentation about the masculine and feminine dance of love, she noticed something new this time around.

If you don't know the "Mama Mia" story, it briefly goes something like this...

Donna (Meryl Streep), who owns an inn on a Greek island, is giving her daughter a wedding at the inn. Donna's three friends come for the wedding, as well as three of Donna's old boyfriends who her daughter has secretly invited because she thinks one of them might be her father.

Here's what Susie saw in this recent viewing of the movie that she hadn't really seen before and what it has to do with you and having more romance and spark in your intimate relationship...

This is truly tragic when it's possible to give our partner or lover something everyone wants but we hold back and don't give it to them.

So, what is it that we ALL want that we don't often get?

Some people think it's love we're talking about here and yes, we all want love but there's something else we ALL want that we'll do almost anything for...

It's what Tony Robbins calls the desire for significance and we all want to feel significant in some way, whether we realize it or not.

Said another way (as it relates to our love relationships)...One of the things we most want in the world is to feel "special," "of value" and "important" to a significant other.

The fact is that we do all kinds of bizarre things we may not ordinarily do (to feel significant) if we weren't trying to get love and get the feelings of being wanted and desired.

We could go on and on and give you example after example of things our coaching clients have told us (both healthy and unhealthy) that they've done for love but what you're probably wondering is...

What's the lesson here and how can you use this to make your relationship great or at least a whole lot better than it is right now?

It's simple...

If you are like most people, you are unaware of all the moments of automatic choosing that go into your beliefs and your choices all the time, choices that determine the possibilities that will be open or closed to you in your future.

Beliefs can be changed but in order to have something different, you have to do something different. Your current beliefs have created what you have now.

If you want to have a different reality, you have to change your beliefs—and that starts with looking at your thoughts.

Learn to observe yourself and realize that you have the power to alter your perceptions and your reactions—and believe that you can create what you want in your life.

It’s the lack of awareness of our repetitive thoughts and beliefs that cause us to view circumstances as happening to us—that we have no control over.

You can’t have closeness and connection if you feel at the mercy of circumstances or what another person does or doesn’t do. The first step to creating the relationship you want is to become aware of your thoughts and beliefs--especially those that limit you.

Here are some common examples of limiting thoughts and beliefs:

Men are liars, men cheat. Women are cold and frigid. My freedom will be impinged if we become closer. Don’t be affectionate in public. I’ll feel better about myself if I had a hair transplant. I’m over 50 and I can never be attractive again and no one will want me. I’m too old to find love. It’s too late for us. She’ll/he’ll never change. All men are the same. Things will be better if we can just get the kids out of the house. Men don’t listen. Women boss you around. Men aren’t emotional. Women are too emotional. If I open my heart again, I’ll just get hurt.

Here are the 3 biggest and deadliest beliefs that kill relationships and keep love away...

Here's are 4 ways you may be sabotaging love and how you can create exactly what you want...

It's a tale of tragedy, heartbreak and disaster that also has a VERY important relationship lesson in it...

Unfortunately it's a lesson that many couples learn too late.

We hope you never let your relationship get to THIS point, as one couple reported in the midst of a true disaster...

This is one of the big reasons why we're offering our "Get Closer Secrets" teleseminar series and coaching program that starts tonight (on Thursday 1/19)...

We also don't want you to ever have to experience anything like this to save your relationship or marriage

^^^^Here's what happened to this couple trying to save their marriage...

http://www.passionateheart.com/GetCloser/Preview

Whether you're already in a relationship or marriage or you're someone who wants to be--you're definitely going to want to sign up now and here's why...

This is a FREE preview for a new seminar series and coaching program we're going to be doing that starts in just a little over a week from now and this "preview" is going to be awesome.

Here are just a few things we're going to cover in the live preview teleseminar and web audio cast...

You'll Discover: .

~ 4 Keys to "Getting Closer"

~ How you can learn from some of the mistakes we made early in our relationship

~ The one simple decision you can make that virtually guarantees that you and your partner will draw closer to each other

~ How to keep the spark going for as long as you want

~ How to shift "out of gridlock" when upsets and challenges come up in your relationship

~ The big thing most couples stop doing that causes that spark and feeling of closeness and connection to fade away

~ One thing you can start doing immediately to get that feeling of closeness and connection back right away

~ And Much More

If there's one thing we've discovered about love since being together, it's that love, passion and a close connection doesn't have to fade away.

There are things you can do right now to bring you and your partner, spouse or lover closer together. (And yes, one person can make a difference!)

On this call, we're going to teach you 4 of them.

Don't miss this FREE Preview of our upcoming teleseminar series and coaching program.

Sign up now for free for "4 Keys To Getting Closer."