This sounds great!

I have been a reader of your blog for about a year now, and the release of this Magic Relationship Words book comes at a great time! I am going to propose to my girlfriend this coming Saturday, and this sounds like a good read for the both of us as we grow stronger together and ensure that our communication stays strong. Your advice on this blog has been amazing, and I would be thrilled to get a chance at the new ebook to delve into deeper content from you both.

Thanks for the offer!

Hi

I like to win the book, because I liked so much the emails I received from you giving people a chance to a better relationship and also, a better life.

God bless you all for your work!!

Your website has helped me as my husband and I are going thru counseling right now in order to save our marriage. Communication is a big issue we have and hope this can help us. Thank you.

when i first heard about your book, should i leave, or should i stay, that book helped me doing a critical time in my marriage. I was leaving. Walking away from everything I've work to build.22 years of marriage. Your book got my attention.It made me rethink my decision. I made me rethink my decision. I am still here working on my marriage. I know that this new book will be a blessing to my marriage also. I will pass this infro on to others who will want to purchase this material.

I would benefit from "Magic Relationship Words", because most of the times I either don't talk when I should. Or I say too much , when I shouldn't say anything. I need help in finding the right words to explain myself and my feelings to my partner.
I have found your articles very helpful, and I desire more.
Thank you!
Alicia

I have had an issue with jealousy since i've been with my wife. There has been no reason for me to be jealous but it's been there. Your emails have been helping me reduce the amount of jealousy and letting me see how crazy some of these thoughts i've been having have been.
I would like to be able to communicate to her my needs and be able to understand her needs without conflict. If the book is anything like the emails, i'd really like to have it, and then pass it to someone else to help them. thanks

I would like to win because I read and re-read all your material. But I really want to win because I love my wife and I don't want to loose her but I am having a difficult time forgetting the past and rebuilding a new relationship. I can use all the help I can get. Thanks for your emails - they help get me through another day. Regards, M

I get much out of most of your postings. Don't have much money, so winning this would be great. I am also interested in controlling jealousy when you are married to a musician who tours often and gigs late into the night.
Thanks!

id like to win this book for the reason that you both have very learnable articles that usually help me and my partner out.. More me.. Also I can use any relationship help.. Have a great day..

I would LOVE to win this book. I am SO terrible at trying to find the right words to say when I want to express how I feel and I often get frustrated and give up. And that takes a toll on my partner and in the end makes me feel even worse!! So, I find myself appologizing and trying to "fix" old arguments that would have resolved if I had the proper tools to help me in the first place!

I so enjoy receiving your emails. You always seem to hit home. My husband and I have been struggling for a year now. In and out of counseling that never seems to work. Our biggest issue at hand . . communication. Until we can repair this I don't feel as though we will get anywhere. In reviewing your "Magic Relationship Words", I can see our issues at every point you make. Perhaps work at home, in our own time and pace might be good for us. Please keep the information coming. I would love to invest in your literature, but due to financial circumstances we are unable currently, so I enjoy what I can take from your emails. Thank you for sharing.

My wife and I are attempting to save our marriage for the second time. We have two young boys in the mix, offering further incentive to make our marriage work. I find myself constantly misunderstood and am often told I am saying the wrong thing or not saying what I "should."

We are attending an intensive workshop in a week to help shed some light on moving past our issues. This information would assist me in communicating more productively and authentically. At this point...we need all the tools we can get our hands on.

I would really like to have a copy of this book. I have wanted to buy it, but finances are an issue. My relationship has been on hold (along with the pending divorce proceedings) for 18 months now and we STILL are having large problems with communication and we daily waver between staying in our marriage or getting out. I know I often say the wrong thing and make things worse. I have been receiving your helpful e-mails for a year now and look forward to each of them. There is so much bad information out there on the internet, I appreciate you two and any help you can give. Thank you, Tracy

I would love to have this book! I think it would be a great help to me in my personal relationship, as has this blog and your emails. You've loaded it all with great, common sense advice. It's very enjoyable reading, too. But even more, I've found your advice helpful in my marriage ministry. I am a wedding officiant and minister, and I've actually been able to use some of the information that you've provided with some of my couples, which is a great joy. I have referred numerous couples to this site, and it will be my pleasure to refer them to your books and audios.

Thank you for your work!

Hi Susie and Otto,
I have been receiving emails from you for about 1 year and find that what you write about and pass on is definitely right on. My Wife and I separated back in March 09 and just recently (past week) she started to move back into the house. Partly due to information I obtained from you and put to use. I know that part of our problem has been our communication to each other and how we tend to say things that either we don't mean or say correctly. This in turn has at times caused problems. I know that your book would be an asset to us and getting our marriage on track. Thank you for the work you do.
Sincerely,
Tom

I am a newly wed of just one year and I really look forward to your emails each week. They have helped keep my relationship with my husband to grow stronger. I even forward some of them to my husband from time to time...and he actually reads them! You see he's kind of that macho type that doesn't talk about feelings, etc. So it is a big deal that your advice means a lot to him. I think this book would really help to keep our relationship strong and grow on the right track!

i need the help, my wife and i have been maried for 24 years and have been through alot, she is recovering from alcohol ,we are both needing a lil roadmapping for bonding, and we both are so thirsty for ways to help us re unite and become one , not just in spirit , but mind and soul as well, your program so far has made the lights and sparks happen,, thank you for all you do and your openess to help others my wife and i are almost 50 and have endured alot, and now that the kids are gone its time we work on us , to be one, to share the joys of life and feel the confort of each others love and trust, as an alcoholic she cheated, lied etc, and i yelled, well we are past those days and are in the healing process, it will take time but the steps and help tips you give go along way,, we have our faith and love is there we just need to be more open and understand each other first thank you again

I've been receiving your email which has helped a lot. There are times in the relationship I'm in I'm not sure why there is less communication than there was before and it seems sometimes that my partner doesn't trust me based on some of the reactions I've had. I think the book could help improve trust by communicating better. Thank you.

Thank you very much for all the help you have given to me.

This programme have been educative to me.

I now know the way forward.

I need this book so I can help our relationship. My wife wants to put forth zero effort in solving a issue i have with her conduct around other men. Please help.

I have been struggling with my relationship, I love this woman more than anything, and have done everything to regain her trust, and love we are missing the spark to get it started again. when her world falls apart, I'm the one she calls. but she wont put both feet into the relationship.

After 2-year long deployments in Iraq we struggled for over a year trying to regain our communication and lives together and we finally separated for 6 months in Jan. We have used your tools and counseling to help with communication and to pull our relationship back together.It has been a long road and a learning process for both of us but we are more in love than ever and it just gets bigger every day. Thank you for your dedication and sharing. Life is GOOD

After 2-year long deployments in Iraq we struggled for over a year trying to regain our communication and lives together and we finally separated for 6 months in Jan. We have used your tools and counseling to help with communication and to pull our relationship back together.It has been a long road and a learning process for both of us but we are more in love than ever and it just gets bigger every day. Thank you for your dedication and sharing. Life is GOOD

i'd love to win your book, because i'm coming out of a challenging divorce of a 25 year marriage and with your help, at this time in my life, i am motivated to transform this experience from pain and failure to newfound opportunity to create better, healthier, more satisfying relationships in my future. You have modeled to me that it is never too late to love again, to learn and grow through love, and to cherish and nurture that new love, once it is found! Thank you both for generously sharing yourselves so openly with all of your readers and inspiring us each day through your wonderful e-letters and books.

Hi
I would like to win the book Magic Relationship words ebook and audio program because I have layers of communication challenges in my marriage.
We have gone to counciling and are improving but continue to search for tools to help us get better. I hope we win

I have been widowed for 4 years. My husband and I were together for many, many years. We loved each other dearly, but he's gone now. About a month ago, I ran across an old love that I broke up with over 30 years ago and the spark is still there. I hope we can rekindle the relationship, but I am so clueless. I've been "out of the market" for way too long and definitely need help. I never thought I could feel like this again, but I now know that I'm ready to take a chance on love again.

I definitely need all the help I can get! I've seen your posts about this upcoming book and it sounds like something that may help me. Thank you so much for giving me this chance.

I've been reading your blog and other materials for over two years. I love the positive spin you put on everything and the honesty of your words. So much of it rings true for me. My husband and I often reach impasses in our communication and everything feels like it falls apart . . . sometimes for days . . . over the tiniest wrong phrasing. We could definitely benefit from having some "magic words" to help us through those impasses!

Thanks and God Bless!

I need the Relationship Magic Words to help me not to blow my second chance with the love of my life. I'm 52, divorced for about a year and have reconnected with my love from 30 years ago. Back then I drove him away with my insane jealousy and relationship issues. I cannot afford to make the same mistakes twice.

L. Lawhorn, Indianapolis

Wow! What a great idea! Having a set of guidelines for getting out of an arguement would be great! My husband and I have been miscommunicating for years and are now just beginning to understand who we are and have become after years of marriage , kids, and his affair. Hes very touchy still and has problems accepting my attempts to communicate my feelings about us and his choice to have an affair. He has never had that understanding. We are still a work in progress. So it would be fantastic to be a winner of one of your ebooks. So pick me please!

As I prepare to enter into my second marriage, I certainly don't want to blow it! I love "magic words" and would love to have some in my vocabulary for those times I'm upset but want to be productive in solving conflict.

I would love to win a copy just to read more on how to get my marriage back on track.

Thank you both so much for all your e-mails that has helped my marriage. My husband and I are trying so hard each day to always talk to one another in a loving way. I would like to win this book to help our marriage even more. We both really appreciate all the advice you share.

Thanks again
Gina Wilsey

After 27 years of marriage my husband left me. One of the things he said to me throughout our marriage was that I was "too emotional." I attribute that to being unable to communicate effectively. So, by the time an issue was discussed I was normally in tears and he was angry.

Although communication does not seem to be a problem in my new relationship, I want to avoid the mistakes I made in the past. Knowing the “magic” words to use will go a long way in improving the way I approach problems.

Your daily emails have been an inspiration and I’m sure this book will continue providing guidance and advice to improve relationships.

Thank you for your dedication and efforts in teaching us how to improve our lives!

I would love to win your new audio program of Magic Relationship Words! I recently got married and find the only time we have problems is when we try to discuss things and I have a hard time with my feelings so I don't say the right things and then this makes it worse. This is my second marriage and I will do anything to make this my last. I want more then anything to be in a loving, caring relationship with as little stress as possible. I have already done your no more jealousy series and have found that has help me. I am heading in the right direction but I keep wanting to do whatever it takes. Thanks for your help so far!

I have been a reader of your blog for almost 2 years now. I find what you say to be inspirational and helpful in my marriage issues. I would really like to get my husband into reading your material and I think this book would be a great starter.

I have been reading your material for about a year now and it has helped me a great deal in my personal growth within my relationship. There was a day where i was extremely in distress due to my chronic jealousy and i searched in the search bar dealing with jealousy, and your website came up with the no more jealousy program, i bought it right away and it was a major awaking, i had never known what jealousy truly was till you explained it. The again i purchased the Trust Turn around which helped me see why i was resisting trusting in my relationship. you have helped me become aware of all my insecurities in relationships. And now as I am improving i would like to learn on better ways to communicate with my partner. I grew up in a harsh family where every was anger in order to control others behaviors, i find myself doing the same with my partner, perhaps with this book i can learn new ways of communicating in a more loving way. Thank you for doing what you do...if it wasn't for your information i would have lost my husband and never learned to heal my jealous feelings. Thank you sooo much!! God Bless.

I have been in my relationship for a year now and both myself and boyfriend seem to have trouble communicating on deeper levels. It seems as those we always mis-connect when using our choice of words. It ends in frustration and distance. We so want to make it work and feel we have the makings for a lasting relationship but feel we are stuck at a place where there is little or no growth because we lack the right verbage. I have enjoyed your emails on a weekly basis and I try and impliment some of the techniques...So what do you have if you can't or don't know how to communicate by using the right words?..a whole bunch of physical and air. We want more!

I love the daily emails and they have helped some but I really want to read the new book.

Your emails and comments always seem to arrive at just the time I need them! My partner and I have been together for 15 years and are attempting to emerge from the "rut" we have found ourselves in over the last few years. Your expertise and down-to-earth, common sense communication language for couples would truly be a blessing as we forage a new path for "us".
Thank you for your "gifts" to us all!

i need help in expressing myself in a more productive way. so often i say things i know are not a wise choice and things get unpleasant between me and my hubbie. i am willing to learn, to change, but guidance is always helpful, cause clearly i don't know what i'm doing!

Communication is a big issue for my husband (as well as me sometimes) as we try to sort through some infidelity issues he's had recently. And, just now getting ready for some marriage counseling, so any help we can get would be so appreciated and needed. I've been enjoying receiving your emails and know I would enjoy receiving the Magic Relationship Words. Thanks.

I have been reading and listening to you for about 3 years now. I even signed up for individual counselling with Susie. Things are much better now, mostly due to my own attitude and language changes, but also due to some changes my husband has made. I would like to win the book and audio program because I want to continue down the good road I am on and never go back to the old road again.

My husband and I are in the process of re-building our marriage after the discovery of a long term affair, and need the assistance in communicating what & how we are feeling in a positive way, so we don't hurt or damage the work we have done so far. Communication is the number 1 thing we are working on! This book would be so helpful on our journey to success.

I have been a member of your website since I discovered my husbands affair in April and you have helped give me hope on many dark days. I would like to win this book because for the past 3 months nothing that I have been saying comes out right! Perhaps this will help so we can begin to communicate in a better way.

I feel this ebook will help our marriage because our issues all relate to miscommunication! thank u from the bottom of my heart for all that you share with your readers. it has been a blessing! Holly in Florida

Seven years in a bad relationship with a woman who when she got pregnant told me that it might not be mine. I stuck it out and a year latter a blood test told us that the baby was in fact mine. We broke up when the kid was 3 and she has been with me me ever since. Eleven year single I meet someone who I fell in love with and married. The past seams to rear its head every so often. Your emails have helped a lot but its hard to trust a person when you have had such crapie past relations. I dig your books and emails, you guys rock.

I love your website and it has been a great inspiration to me and my husband.I have a difficult time communicating with my husband because he gets upset when I ask him certain questions. I believe this opportunity to win your book and audio program will be a step in the right direction for better communication with my husband.

I would like to get this book as I am not very good at saying things to my wife. I usally say the very wrong thing and this has caused us problems in our life. We currently just bough should I stay or Should I go and are working through it to see what we should do. By knowing I always say the wrong thing I would use this to counter act some of the things I may say. By putting this together with the other book it may just be enough to help save our marrage. We both know the road is long but we have to try for the sake of our kids who are innocent bystanders

Your "No More Jealousy" Audio Set has truly changed the way in which I examine my behavior within my intimate relationship. I struggled coping with my jealousy for several years. Reacting with jealousy only made me more miserable and helped to push my partner away. In spite of overcoming this huge barrier in my life and romantic relationship, I still struggle in effectively communicating to my partner. When faced in a stressful situation, I tend to either vent, complain or attack my partner about what is bothering me. This is extremely ineffective and creates no change. I then end up in this vicious cycle of anger and frustration which only helps to distance my partner from me. I would love to learn knew tools to apply to my relationship not only with my partner but also with my loved ones.
Thank you for all that you do!

hi guys

i just wnated to say thank you so much for all your advice so far , if i had nto had you guys and your daily emails over the past few months , my girlfriend and i would surely have split up. i have major insecurity issues and also lie to get out of stupid situations i get myself into by talking to people and being too open at times. i hope i win a copy of the new book, as to be honest i think i have you to thank for my mental stability up till now. thanks so much graham.

Hi,

I'd like to win the book because I am already having some problems with communication in my relationship and I think this might help us get our relationship back on track. I try to read your emails as often as I can and I always find them very interesting.
Thanks!

I would like to win this because I always have a tough time communicating and really getting my meaning across to my husband. He and I have gone through a lot of rough patches and he just got back from a year long deployment and is suffering from the after-effects of that. He is on medication and going through counseling but I want to give our relationship the best possible chance to survive and be great and I feel this book would help a lot with that. I follow your advice and it has really helped so far, I just want to go farther.

I need this package because when I am mad at times I say things to my spouse I regret after, now if I am fully learned on this I will know how to think before I answer this would safe my relationship.

Hi, I have been reading your site for nearly a year now. Fortunately your hard work is helping me get through an awful relationship breakdown. Luckily for me I have met the girl of my dreams and using my new information on relationships found at your web site will avoid all those terrible pitfalls of the past. Thanks Susie & Otto !!

I would like to win "Magic Relationship Words" - I feel that it will help me in my relationship. Communication is a problem, I feel that we each have our own definitions, & sometimes words are taken wrong. I am looking for better ways to express & communicate, & learn better how to interpret what my partner is saying also. I want better understanding between me & my partner, so we can grow together.

I want this program because I just ended a long, long (20+ year) relationship with someone and our biggest problem was lack of communication. He and I both seldom expressed our true feelings and when I would by the time I did I would say all the wrong things and we would both end up angry. I would like to put an end to this way of communicating once and for all. Thanks.

I would like to win this book I love all your articles and I just keep praying that maybe someday soon my husband will return to me. We have been separated for 2 yrs and he lives with another woman but will not let me go. He is in counseling right now hopefully that will help with his confusion.
The world needs more people like you to pass along the good words and encouragement.
Thanks
Londa

I always find your material enlightening, sometimes very enlightening, but there is always a value obtained for the time I invest. I am very thankful for the insight...to quote Covey "seek first to understand, then to be understood."

I have jealousy issues in my relationship and trust issues and need help communicating and getting my partner to do the same. It would be great if this program could help.

I have jealousy issues in my relationship and trust issues and need help communicating and getting my partner to do the same. It would be great if this program could help.

I would like to win the free copy, I feel I can get so much information which will help my relationship, which is like a yo-yo, up and down.I have the Should You Stay/Should You Go and am still in the same relationship and want to continue in it but need some help with words-that hurt so much.

Thank you very much

Hi Susie and Otto:

I recently ordered your jealousy ebook and I am in the process of trying to sort out my life. I would love to win your new book so that I could talk to my boyfriend without saying things "wrong". I tend to blurt things out and then ask myself why I didn't say it differently. I feel so misunderstood when I try to tell him something important. It's like we speak totally different languages and I usually feel as though I should apologize afterwards because things I say never come out like I want them to. I have tried several different ways to approach him and each time I get more and more frustrated (at myself) for not being able to tell him the things I need him to know. Thank you so much for this opportunity and thank you also for the great Jealousy program!

Hello ,

Thanks for taking the time to help others , your wisdom through your own personal growth has shown a tremendous amount of people the way to start to communicate the right way , i personally i'm working on a closer understanding of my best friends feelings rather than my own . and trying to be a better listener
Have a great day !

I am an avid follower of your advices through the emails I had been receiving from you almost daily, my big thanks to you. And yes, I want very much to win your ebook, your advices are so real and almost always everyone can relate to. There is so much kindness and generosity in every words and phrases you used. In doing so, I feel the connection; it's coming from your heart. Your examples are the everyday struggles and situations that we come across with. Even if I don't win, I am already a winner from the emails and advices alone... free of charge...More power to you!

Hi! I'd love to win your copy of "Magic Relationship Words" because i liked the seminar i took on how to use some of these words, and i've tried, not always successful, to use these words to better my relationship! I'd love for my boyfriend and I to read it TOGETHER, instead of just me passing the info along. Thank you for all of your great help with realtionships, and I hope i'm one of your lucky winners!

thanks for the opportunity to win the "magic relationship words" ebook. i enjoy reading your emails and gain much insight. thanks for all y'all do!

I am about learning new and effective things to help me out in my relationship, so winning the book would be awesome!
Thank you :o)

my relationship is seriously on the rocks, nothing I say comes out right and he hears tones and words I never said. I want to speak in a different manner so we can repair our relationship and keep our family together before it is done for good and I am fearing with no way to repair it.

Susie and Otto, First let me thank you for all the amazing information and gifts you've shared with me, which in turn I've applied and shared with the Love of My Life! He, newly divorced and not having taken a lot of time to heal, has used much of it to assist him to a higher level of communicating and letting go of past travesties. We're elated to say, we keep getting better and better! I am eager to read this new book as we journal a lot. Individually and together. We leave love notes and write emails and letters to descriptively work through making our relationship the strongest possible. While life may always throw us curves, we are prepared to learn every day how best to react and act towards them! Thanks again, for everything!

I would like to win the book because I am jealous of my boyfriend. When we first got together five years ago he cheated on me with the next door neighbour woman. He didn't tell me, I had to find out in court, she charged him with rape. The charges dropped as it was consentual sex. Now, I am paranoid. I am jealous of him if he talks too much to another woman, if he spends too much time with her. If he drinks with her and pays attention only to her. I don't want to lose my relationship, but I think it is too late. I kicked him out because I was suspicious of another woman he was calling and going drinking with. He tells me they were just friends not lovers. I already kicked him out. I need help to deal with my jealousy as I don't want my jealousy to continue on to my next relationship or if I end up going back to my boyfriend. Confused.

I would like to win because all of the problems in our marriage seem to lead back to miscommunication. We both want to communicate better, but it is almost like we speak different languages! Thank you for your wise words and sharing your personal experiences, bless you both!

~Holly in Florida

Hello Susie and Otto,
I really need some help in the relationship department. I first married a man that physically abused me and I ended my 2nd marriage because my husband was unfaithful and he didn't want to work thru it. I have now been single for 5 years. I know that it begins with me so I have really been studying hard to become the person I am meant to be. I think your book will help me learn the information I need for a healthy relationship in the future. I had a not so good childhood. Thank you both for your honesty and sharing your marriage and every day stories about each other. It really is a blessing.

Nancy

I want the "Magic Relationship Words" book and audio program because God has blessed me with a second chance for a relationship with an awesome man, who is everything I have EVER prayed for, as well as with a chance for the restoration of the relationships with my children and my family of origin (a long story, due to the ugliness of severe domestic violence and abuse, perpetrated by my ex-husband). Unfortunately "life events" have separated all of us for over a year. I am following God's will in my life for a new start and for emotional healing. I am also FERVENTLY searching for the resources and people that the Lord has for me, for healing of my relationships. I feel that the book and program will help me in mending ALL of these relationships.
Thank you, and may God richly bless you and keep you and yours
Thank you for all that you do for others......
Anne Z.

I read your website often and have read some of your other materials. You have been a great resource.
I would benefit from Magic of Relationship words, because both my partner and I are terrible communicators. I often do not use the right words and it really makes matters worse. I want to save my 14 year relationship desparately and I'm kind of doing it alone.

I found your blog a few months ago, and signed up for your newsletters. Since then, my fiancee and I have found them incredibly helpful whenever we encounter a hiccup or bump (or minor earthquake!) in our relationship. You have given both of us some extremely valuable tools which we will no doubt use in our marriage. Thank you so much!

Hello!

I enjoy all of your advise, and have seen much improvement in myself, my confidence, and especially regarding jealousy issues. Please know that your work is really helping people like me! I often have trouble getting my points accross with out being misunderstood, leading to big frustrations. I'm anxious to read Magic Words, regardless if I win a copy. Communication is key, and I'm sure these Magic Words are jut what I need to get it right. I believe they can help me to be a more effective communicater, with less frustrations. Your teamwork helps people take a step back, and understand what they are doing and feeling instead of purly reacting. Keep up the good work, and keep sending the Magic!!

Thank You, Thank You!

I an in my 40's and have had nothing but fatal attempts at relationships for my whole life.I see a pattern in my relationships, I am now healing myself to a very healthy state, befor everything in my relationships was" the other persons fault"Now after reading your e-mails and forwarding them to my new boyfriend ,it helps both of us. Ironically every time I come back from seeing him there always is an issue, He is 46 and never married so it is intereasting for both of us. But, your e-mails ALWAYS in my in box are exactlt what we had just gone through that very weekend. We have both grown from your councel. I dont want to be alone for the reast of my life and if I do not get serious help now, I will. I want marriage and Children. I do not want men who beat me, or are closet Gay! I really want my current relationship to be my final stop, and due to your councel, it has helped.I really, being layed off now would appreciate the help up. Thank you both so much!

I stumbled across your website about a month ago looking for tried and tested methods for overcoming jealousy. Well needless to say I bought your "No More Jealousy" program and never looked back!

However, I am still the queen of "putting my preverbal foot in it" and would like to learn your methods for improving the communication between myself and my partner. I have benefited gretly from your wisdom and experience already and would be a great candidate for further self improvement! :)

Carry on with the great work you both do!

Before I open my mouth & insert foot (yet again) I DESPARATELY NEED your book asap...PLEASE!!

This feels like being offered the keys to the kingdom, so who wouldnt want to improve communication and connection? I certainly do and am always open for new ways to improve my abilities. The book sounds intiguing and packed with all the information one could need. I really like the idea of having over 100 words to "get it right" awesome.

I was married when I was sixteen and divorced and married again and divorced. My mother had a huge issue with jealousy with my dad and I believe alot of that has been instilled in me. I've been with my soul mate now for seven months and he is honestly the best guy any women could ask for. I feel the jealousy coming on and I know for sure I have no reason too and we try and talk to each other and I can't get out what I feel inside. This book would be great for me as I want this relationship to last for the rest of our lives. Were both in our early fourtees and do not want to do this again.

Thank You So Much!

I'd like to win the book because i am in the process of breaking up with a controlling partner who wont talk to or listen to me & i would like to learn how to talk properly to future partner without confrontation which is all i seem to be doing at the moment.

Hi there, I would like to begin by thanking you for the valuable information in your e-mails. I would very much like to get your book and audio program, because I really think it has a fresh take on communication between couples. you see, it is easy to say one has to "open up" and "speak honestly" and "from the heart", but in the heat of an argument, we usually speak our truth using the words and a tone of voice that undermines the effort we do to 'connect". That's where I think your book will help me, because I don't have much trouble in opening up to my finace, but I have a problem in controlling how I do it. He is the love of my life and we have a wonderful relationship, Thank God!, but I have my concerns about how to maintain our connection after marriage and I truly think keeping clear communication channels between us will put those concerns to rest!

Thanks for this oppurtunity and everything.

hi,

this is a graet idea and a big help for everyone of us reading your blogs.i want this book because it will be a big help for me relationship with my partner...the title itself is interesting and i love it.

I have purchased some of your books and programs before and found them helpful. My relationship has suffered from a sexual interest disparity issue for quite some time but I love my husband and don't want my complaints about lack of a love life to fall on deaf ears or worse to distance us further. It is my hope that knowing some key phrases and conversation starters (Magic Relationship Words) may help us get through these issues with greater ease.

Thanks

Your emails have saved me! I live each day lately reciting your words in my head. I have a super long and deep history with jealousy and my fiance (soon to be husband. getting married FINALLY next Sat. Aug. 1)started our relationship out cheating on our significant others so we kind of doomed ourselves from the beginning but your emails have given us such great tools to basically reprogram ourselves and we have never made so much progress as we have with your help. I would be so excited to win this book I just know it will be a huge tool that we would forever cherish and use. We have been through so so much and now we finally feel like forever is actually a word that does belong in our lives thanks to you guys. Even if we do not win this package I am so glad to get the chance to let you know how we feel and it is so wonderful that you guys are doing what you do. Thank you for all that you have given us. God bless.

Wow…..magic words. I did not think those existed!!
I have been married to the same person for twenty seven years, thirty three with dating first.
I am in therapy for co- dependency and carrying much anger toward him and his past addiction. My words are always said the wrong way or maybe he just stays on his defensive side.
My husband is in therapy and a recovering alcoholic. I am starting therapist number four and he is with number three today. The others just kept us battling and just can’t seem to get it right (individually) let alone work on the two of us together.

Lets talk “triggers” and walking not only in an eggshell conversation but an eggshell environment. It is getting better though, one day at a time.
We have made a pack to give each other 15 minutes a day each to say what he or she wants without interruption, I sometimes wonder if he is listening let alone hears me.

This marriage needs a lot of work to hold it together.

I believe this book and audio program would keep us in the same environment learning the same technique at the same time. We both desperately want to hold this marriage together but how, when we do not have the right tools to work with TOGETHER.
Today we take our 15 minutes each and hope we can begin to communicate properly and lovingly.

Good Luck To All

Dear Susie and Otto,

I am a follower of your advices and have been for a year or so now.
I appreciate the quality of your work, the quality of your advices... the fact that it comes from you two as a couple is invaluable... and I am the keenest man to learn everything possible to successfully create the relationship I dream of.

So thank you for that...
and also for the opportunity to win a copy of your latest book

Warm regards

Rudi

I need to learn to communicate more effectively. It seems that men and women perceive spoken words so differently. I really think that this will help me and my relationship.

I just lost what should and could have been the best relationship I have known. Partly because I used wrong words at the wrong time!! I would like to avoid this in the future and your book would help accomplish this. I do enjoy the emails I receive from you and have profitted from them personally.

Hi Susie & Otto,

I am a thirty three years old Ghanaian, a hubby and a father of three (one girl and a set of twin boys). Thanks for the advices, trainings, coachings, mentoring and everything. You are doing a wonderful work and I say God richly continue to bless you with the wisdom, strengh, knowledge and all that you wish for yourselve to continue to impart unto us.

Communication is said to be the live wire of most organizations and Institutions without exception to the holy institution created by God (Marriage). I personally believe that being a good communicator in your marriage is half the problem solved. I want to grow much more in my communication to God, my beloved spouse, wonderful children and people that I interact with. I pray to be a role model for others to follow of which communication is an important part. I believe a copy of this book will help me grow to be what I want to be.

Thank you

I enjoy reading the blogs. They provide me with insight i had not thought of before. I am hoping to get a copy of the book & program so that I can begin on my healing and trust issues which I know will build our relationship stronger & better

I am trying to read everything I can about your advice. This book would help greatly, in fact every email I see from you really helps. I am currently seperated from the man I love, but kind of hope and wish we could be back together, but also doubt it will ever work. I cannot change him and he is not willing to make the changes that are needed for our relationship to have worked. We were suppose to be married this year but our communication among other things completely broke down. My patience ran out and I got tired of being the one trying to reason and talk and seemed he just wanted to be chased. Anyhoo, I feel this book would really help my own development for whatever the future has in store for me.

thanks for reading my comment.

Connie G :o)

First of all I want to thank you for your help and advice you give to people like me. I read your blog and e-mails and they have been really helpful for me and my boyfriend. You helped us realize that we are not alone and stuck in jealousy and mistrust forever. I'd be glad if you choose us to win a copy of your new book because we are not really good in truly expressing what we feel without hurting each other. We always start calling names and blaming and somewhere along the way we loose the sense of really connecting to each other.

Susie and Otto:

First off I'd like to thank you for each and every one of your emails. I have been receiving them since September 2007 and I actually have a "Susie and Otto" File that I keep them all in to refer to from time to time when I need to remind myself how important my relationship with my husband is to me.
About a year ago, I listened to your "Relationship Trust Building Webcast" and I honestly believe it carried me through a really tough time. I have been married to the same wonderful man for the past 32 years. About 5 years ago, after our grown chilren went out on their own and I started the process of going through menopause, I found myself questioning his loyalty even though he NEVER gave me any reason to doubt him. My own father abandoned me and my siblings when I was very young, so I guess that fear has always been with me. Raising my children kept me so occupied that I never had the time to dwell on it. With the empty nest and depleting hormones, those fears began to surface and have kept us on a roller coaster of emotions since. I have learned a lot from you about how to deal with these emotions, but feel that I still have a way to go before I can say these fears don't interfere with my relationship. I'm hoping that your new ebook will bring me closer to that point and help me to better communicate my fears, etc. to my husband. Thanks again for all the wonderful tips and advice. I will always look forward to hearing from you and hope that you continue your work helping others for a long time to come.

I would like a copy of your book so I can start my next relationship with the right foundation and work to make the right decisions so it can be fulfilling and lasting. As a single mom, I have shown my girls happiness can be found inside yourself but I would also like to be able to show them what the most appropriate way to participate in a relationship is. I want to break the cycle of divorce for my children, before they get there.

Im having incredible insecurities and when I have been doing my absolute best to take time to present my issues and feeling to my partner I feel he still makes me feel that "its ok", i'll get it eventually, I really want to be able to keep my composure, maturity, salm, rationality, and clear mindedness and be conscious and present for every minute.

We have been receving your emails, have taken classes, have tried on your suggestions and ideas, and you have helped us SO much!

We would love to win your book to help us with our reframing - building each other UP with our words and energy!

Thanks for all you have done for so many of us and we're wishing you blessings of all the very best on YOUR journey!

With love and gratitude,

Chuck and Char

Well to be very honest, I am ready to start the dating process again and after being tormented by my ex for over 12 years I really dont know where or how to start, so I was thinking this may be the answer to my prayers ... so here I am .. with everyone trying to make a new life and fresh start and put all the ugliness that happened behind me, I know there are really nice guys out there but how to find one and keep one .. well thats where I am stuck in this new life .. but that too will be answered for the God always blesses me and keeps me safe, I am alive today to tell my story and that is a miracle.

We have been receving your emails, have taken classes, have tried on your suggestions and ideas, and you have helped us SO much!

We would love to win your book to help us with our reframing - building each other UP with our words and energy!

Thanks for all you have done for so many of us and we're wishing you blessings of all the very best on YOUR journey!

With love and gratitude,

Chuck and Char

Hi Susie and Otto,
Congrats on your new release!
My youngest brother and my sister -in-law was have a terrible time in there marriage recently. One major help that got them back together was talking to my brother about being in the high-alert mode. Always waiting on something to happen and distrust, among other points from the emails I receive from the two of you. Thanks for that it really made a major difference. Winning the new ebook and audio will educate me and I can also help others.
Patrice

I would LOVE to win this book! It sounds like just what I need! I totally suck at getting my point across! My husband has a lot of health issues, partly because of choices he makes, and I need and want to be a loving and supportive wife, but at the same time get him back on track without nagging!

I would like to win this book because my boyfriend and I are attending counseling now and we have serious communication issues. He likes to joke around, but his joking words hurt deep sometimes and make me feel like I'm being made fun of rather than loved. I would like to hear more uplifting words from him - he is 44 and probably is used to talking this way to women. I would like to also know words to use when talking to him to show as example as well as to try to lift him up.

I love your emails and they have been helpful, thanks so much for them!

My partner and I have been working incredibly hard for the entirety of our relationship (2 years) on communication, jealousy issues and anger issues. We both read your e-mails and share the information we've learned in them each night when we get home from work. We try to implement as much of the techniques we've found in them and in your Jealousy program to better our relationship.
It has been an uphill climb, but we are still at it. I think we really have something special, but it's not always easy to see that and to treat each other with the respect and kindness that we each deserve. We both get overwhelmed by our emotions quite easily and quite often, making it even harder to express ourselves in a respectful and clear manner. I am looking forward to reading Magic Relationship Words to help me stay articulate during times of distress and I know my partner is, too.
Thank you for all your work and for this opportunity.
-Dani

Hi,
I really enjoy reading your emails as they are VERY helpful. I struggled with jealousy and have for the 5 years that we have been married. What makes things worse is that my husband is a pastor...which makes me the pastors wife. I have no reason to be jealous but for some reason I am. This is a daily struggle. I love God and my husband so much and I hate that jealousy is in our marriage.Its totally not acceptable and any resources that would help would be much appreciated. We have 2 small boys and I would love to be over the jealousy before they get old enough to see it because I know that its not a good example for them. Thats why I would love to have a copy! Thanks for your time and consideration. I look forward to keep reading your emails.

I would LOVE to win b/c my husband and I are trying to give our marriage another chance after more than a year being seperated and filing for divorce. We have a lot to talk about to make this work for ourselves and our three children. This book would be a great resource to get us through.
Thanks you for your wonderful emails too, they help so much.
Amanda in Pittsburgh

hi, ive been getting your emails everyday in how to improve my marriage. i think this book will help me to improve my relationship with the husband im rebuilding my trust again. its hard for he got this other person pregnant so trust is still a big issue that he will not do anything with her again; only communicate for the child's sake. im also expecting too. I do want to thank you because he does see a change in me and i want to do better to please him and it will help him to communicate more with me. Thank you so much and God bless

I have been helped with the jealousy issues that I have had for a very long time and in every relationship that I have had.
I would love to win this book, because your advice has helped me with the above issue that I have had to years and for the first time in my life (age 44) I am tackling it and would love to be married someday soon. Thank you so much for you help newsletters and webseminars that you have offered at good rate. You guys are the best.

I feel that We would benefit from this new book. My partner and I are redefining our relationship due to infidelity. We are working hard at communication and understanding each other. We are growing and need a little extra push. I believe that this would be a great opportunity for the both of us. Thank you for all of your emails and disscussion ideas that have helped us this far.

Hi, I would really love to receive a copy of your new book, my husband and I have been struggling big time with his affairs and are both trying to work through all the associated issues with this, a lot of the time things get out of hand unintentionally because one or both of us will say something in a way that offends the other. It would be extremely helpful to both of us if perhaps we knew of other ways to communicate what we are actually trying to say without seeming hurtful. Also thank you so much for your emails and this opportunity to receive this new book. Love & Light
Sonia

I read the e-mails sent out. My husband and I need to improve our communication skills with each other. It seems we say a lot of things wrong to each other.

I"m having incredible insecurities and when I have been doing my absolute best to take time to present my issues and feeling to my partner I feel he still makes me feel that "its ok", i'll get it eventually, I really want to be able to keep my composure, maturity, calm, rationality, and clear mindedness and be conscious and present for every minute.

I would love to win this. My husband and I are recently seperated due to alot of conflicting issues. We need to reconnect the right way. Could use all the help I can get guys! Think you two are great!

First of all, thank you to you both for your wonderful work.

I was in a severe violent, angry, abusive and possessive marriage for 21 years and finally left him.

After 3 years I have met the most wonderful man I could wish for and I just cant seem to handle the good times, so used to bad times I guess. I am suffering from severe jealousy which I have never suffered from and I feel like Im going crazy, I have NOTHING to make me feel this way, it is so consuming I feel like Im having a heart attack most of the time. I hate myself for feeling like this and I really NEED help. I dont know where to turn. I dont have a lot of money right now as I am still trying to settle everything and I would love to win this book and audio.
You are both such a blessing in so many peoples lives. Keep up the good work.
Thanks
Carolyn, Melbourne, Australia

You two are quite simply the "magic." I've read the other comments and all I can add is "thanks for bringing the magic to all of us." You have touched the lives of so many people; people like me who have been through some of life's storms and are confused, worried, and at a loss at how to make it better. You two provide that guiding light and tools that bring some of us back to that safe harbour place, where we can begin to learn how to love each other again. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Hi Susie and Otto, I have received your mails for about three weeks now and I must say this, it appeared as you had actually been present douring me and my partners quarrels and fights. I love my girlfriend and she loves me we been together for three yoers but moved apart because of constant arguments and fights, we even split up but are so dravn towards eachother that we want to make it together.we both realize that our communication (or mis communication) is the core of our problems (jealousy is the spice). We are now living apart long distance and communication is now more important than ever , however we seem to fall back in our old patterns. It is frustrating n as I put oit , that two reasonably intelligent people with otherwise excellent communication skills seem to be unable to make sence of it all when emotions get involved. I believe your material would provide us with tools that will enable us to improve our communication with eachother. Thank you for your help ! Lastly let me just add that reading through the posts allready posted I realize that me and my girlfriend are not alone in this situation lots of people seem to struggle with the same issues- I appreciate that this is the reason for your dedicated work. I know that regardless to whom. You give the material to it will enrich someones life. And that to me is applaudable (forgive me for my English I am not a native speaker)

Kindest Regards
Thomas

HI YA......I must say YOU ARE THE BEST!!!! And boy do i need HELP!!!! Lots and lots of it!!! you have no idea how much your emails have saved me!!! the first thing i do as my eyes open in the morning is rush to check my comp!!! You have been one of my SAVIOURS!!!! Please dont stop!!! i need this book!!!....So thankyou!!!

Hi
My husband and I have been struggling with communication for 18 years.We both had difficult abusive childhoods and have split up twice as things have come to a head. We are just hanging on together by a thread at the moment ,and we're both trying to work towards healing although it's slow going .I would like to win a copy of your book because I 've been recieving your emails about jealousy and ,along with some healing techniques, they have been very helpful .I'm sure your book is full of good communication skills. We are so in love really but find it so hard to talk without our pasts influencing our words. It would be good to take the skills from your book and teach them to my husband so we could both communicate better .Also,if 'im honest , neither of us have much money, so winning your book would be great for that reason too !I'd like to thank you for all the help and wise words you have given to me completly free through your emails .You're good people .

I have ben reading your blog for a while now and while I feel I have come a long way, I would like my partner to come on this journey with me.

I would like to win a copy of the book and audio as I am trying to rebuild a relationship with a woman I dearly love, unfortunately due to my insecurities I seriously invaded her space and tried so hard to fix things for her that it drove us apart, she means the world to me and I think she feels the same way about me and the emails I receive help a lot and we are meeting tomorrow for coffee at which I will explain where I am at, thanks for the continued support

My husband and I are on the brink of divorce. Again. The biggest problem that we have is that we don't know how to communicate about our differences. Whenever a subject that we disagree on comes up, the next thing we know, we are yelling and screaming, and tearing a hole in our relationship. I believe that if we had better tools to use when we communicate with each other, it would greatly help us to smooth out the edges so that we could spend more time enjoying each other, rather than wondering whether we should or should not be together. Thank you.

I am 41 years old and have ruined all my relationships since I have been divorced because of jealousy. My husband playe daround on me and I no longer trust men. I have been trying my vest to change and know this book would be a valuable part of helping me overcome this situation. What I have been reading so far has started to help already so there I can only imagine how much better off I would be to be able to have this book and audio system. Thank you for you valuable insite already.

We have been together for 23yrs with a 7yr old daughter seperated for a year and back together for a year finding it difficult to talking to my partner and when she talks to me I am left empty and in pain. I feel winning will help me get reconnected to my family

I have been with my current wife now for four years and I love her to bits. She has changed my life forever following the failure of my first marriage but I see traits emerging in my current marriage that seem to have followed me and I desperately need to avert another potential disaster to the best thing ever to happen to me. I struggle with words sometimes and get frustrated because others do not understand what I am trying to say, I need your help, your guidance and most of all your book and audio program. I seem to be able to have better conversations with total strangers than I do with my beautiful wife....please help me.
Dave, Adelaide, Australia

I subscribed to your webcast 'magical relationship words that build or rebuild trust' a couple of months ago and it was so helpful. ***The truth that these words speak is incredible.*** I thank you for the work you are doing.

I would love to win a copy of this new program. I receive your emails regulary and love to read the advice they give. I find they are so true & helpful to my current problem of dealing with jealousy in my relationship. I live in Australia and have been hesitant to purchase any programs as I have never bought anything online from overseas before. There is so much to learn in a relationship as husband & wife when two personalities & family backgrounds come together and we don't go to school & get taught before we get married! Thanks for all your emails.

Help! After almost two years of married life I still can't get my husband to open up to me and don't know how to encourage him. Rehashed issues meet with defensiveness. I'm stuck.

i just started getting your email a couple days ago and it has helped me alot. so i would like to get your book to start talking to my man and actually say what i need to with out starting a fight. i like in stillwater oklahoma

Ron and I have problems communicating in our relationship. Whenever I try to explain my case or justify my jealousy, we end up in a disagreement because he feels I am always accusing him. I am interested in this book to help us communicate more effectively and create a better relationship. We have been working on our skills but this book would ultimately change our communication process. The tips and advice I have recieved thus far has been extremely helpful and successful. Thank you for help!

I came across your material only after my relationship ended and I was searching to find out where we went so wrong. communication broke down, there were issues of mistrust and jealousy and we did not seem to find the words to get past these issues. I would like the book so I can learn the correct language to be able to say how what needs to be said so this does not happen again. I am getting too old to be making these mistakes.

Hello Susie & Otto,
Thank you both first of all for Trust Turnaround program and newsletters which we subscribe to. Your program has been instrumental in helping me to understand where our relationship had gone wrong. My ex-husband and I were married for almost 13years, but we had physically separated for almost 2 years during the marriage. We continued seeing each other when by chance we reconnected and invested in marriage counselling sessions. We reconciled for approx. 4years but a repeat affair caused our painful divorce. That was more than one year ago that we began the divorce process. We both still love each other very much, we have probably the most challenging issue to overcoming jealousy and rebuilding trust because we are trying to rebuild our relationship better and stronger than ever before but from different countries! Yes, we need some strong tools to keep us connected and moving forward building a better than ever relationship. His job is in one country and mine another. We are doing this "long distance" style. We have that "once in a lifetime love" for each other, this love has survived all, its the jealousy and lost trust that is keeping us apart not the borders of our countries. We are looking forward to your new ebook and would be thrilled to win a copy. Thank you for all that you do to enrich relationships globaly!

Hi Susie and Otto. I would love to have this programm to help me with my relationship with my husband of 2 years. I am 48 and have been through many relationships and still not being able to learn and move on. I do not want to loose my husband. He is a wonderful person and very tolerant but i know if i carry on the way i am i will loose him.I do know if i can only get it together we can have a great life.Im tired. I always ask myself and god if i will ever stop my jealousy and i see no light at the moment. Maybe this programme will help and will allow me to live a normal life. I want to be normal! Please help.

I have read and subscribed your advise for a long time,which helped me a lot in improvement of my communication.
Thank you!
I'm sure these Magic Words are jut what I need to get it right.

i hope that i win this book i have been in touch with you guys for a while and have heard a lot of great things! my husband says that i a too jealous and it seems that i am in a rut and i don't nknoew how to get out and i believe that this book is the anawer! we have been together for 15 years abnd my husband says that if i don't stop what i am doing that he is going to leave because he says that i am mentally hurting him and that some days he just wants to disappear! i feel awful that i make him feel that way! it breaks my heart! please help! thanks in advance robyn

I have been recovering from a broken relationship for 9 months and still have a ways to go. I have been to counseling and read my books that have taught me to stop my mind from going into overdrive and listening to that monkey shatter. I have had a problems with insecurites in my life and even after I think I have them conquered they come back. After reading the book on stop being jealous I can look back and see where I have problems. It hurts me to see the mistakes I have made and still have a hard time forgiving myself; but, life goes on and I plan on getting it right from now on. When I have books or articles that I benefit from I keep reading them until they are engrained into my system.

I believe this book will help my jealousy a great deal. The worksheets are doing a good job so far but I really feel I need some extra help because my relationship is suffering right now badly and I really like and love this man and feel he is great for me but if I continue to be jealous I won't be right for him and thats no good I would purchase the book and everything but I can't afford it.

It's been 9 months and I am still trying to move on from a realtionship I was in. This one comes back to haunt me because I swore I was not going to let any of my old insecurites interfer. Well, that didn't happen, and after beating myself up I had to forgive myself. I went to counseling and keep my books by my bed so I can read and re-read passages that help control my thoughts and monkey shatter that can drive me nuts. After reading Overcome Jealously I know there is hope for me and would love to have the set so I can spend more time reading and taking notes. I want to get it right the next time. Your articles have been a blessing for me and when I think someone could benefit from a page you send I forward it on. Thank you for the offer!

i hope i win because it would like to know how to do it the correct way as i as never taught the right way to communicate properly in school or else where. these courses did not exist when i was a college student.

I would really love to have this book. My husband and I enjoy reading the encouraging emails but im convinced this book would Bless our lives even more. I thank God for my marriage and 2 children but life is a roller coaster. Communication is #1 in the ups and downs and i feel like this book would help tremendously.

Our world revolves around relationships. What pleasure we find in day -to-day existence really depends on how well our relationships are working for us. From our family to co-workers, no matter how connected we may be most times, misunderstandings usually happen.

I would very much like to receive a free copy of your newest program to help me learn more about how work through the rough patches successfully. At 50, maybe an old dog can learn some new tricks, at least I'm willing to try.

My wife of 26 years and I separated almost a year ago, but are still emotionally involved. We still love each other, but things are so distant we don't know where to start getting back together. Maybe this would help.

I am in the process of self-discovery after many years of horrible to not-so bad relationships. Taking a break from entering into any kind of relationship for the past year has helped me to understand my pattern history. Now that I am on a new path of growth, when I am ready for my next partnership, I want to walk in pro-actively, not re-actively.

I know, with the help of your program, I can have utilize your skills to communicate on an honest and true level, from the heart. Thanks for all your advice...I look forward to your emails, and feel they are personally directed at me and guiding me towards success!

I would like to win the e-book because I have true problems communicating how I feel. It seems like I have no problem projecting anger but that emotion is not even communicated in the context I am actually feel it.

I have had communication issues for many years and I am not sure if it is due to relationships or maybe because I am from a family of 9 kids, 4 older and 4 younger than me. I just think this book will help me alot in not only my home life but also my work relationships as well. Thank you.

We have been married for nearly 16 years and from the sound of your new book I feel that this may be the thing that will be "the light at the end of the tunnel".

With my Husband's job loss and various other stressful issues we never seem to be able to communicate ANYTHING without it being mis-interrupted. For me I just never know how to go about saying what I need to say without involking his anger and/or disappointment.

I/We would love an opportunity to reconnect and I feel that your new book may just be the best gift in our life right now. Thank you,

L.A.

I have been reading your postings on jealousy and relationships. I've been married 54 years, but I think there's much more to learn. I have some younger friends who come to me for "older" counsel, and I think your work is terrific. Pick me.!

My relationship is the single most valuable in my life. I have received so much information since joining and it has really helped me and my partner understand each other better and also handle situations much better. I would love to have this book in order for us to read it together and grow even closer!

I need help in all my relationships. They aren't working out the way they are supposed to. I'm just not doing something right ever.

I have bought a few items from you and they have helped our relationship to grow. Why do people take the task of one of the most important things in our life without any knowlwdge.

To drive a car which is quite easy, one has to go to lessons, do test driving and take exams but for a partnership nobody is prepared.

I have learned a lot from you guys and because my relationship is meaningful for me i would love to be a lucky one of the winners. If not I will most probable buy it anyway later on. Thanks a lot for your advice and help. Have a great day and greetings from South Afica.

hi

Before anything else i would like to thank u for all those wonderful,great advice and lesson i have learned from from your site.

Knowing and learning about jealousy helps me a lot.
i also learned how to develop my character.
i want to be part of those person who will have this winning books. cause i believe it will strengthen my good character to others. thank you so much.

I AM ABOUT TO MARRY AND I WOULD LIKE MY RELATIONSHIP TO BE PERFECT. I KNOW FROM YOUR ADVISE I WILL MAKE IT.

Your advice, messages and mail as being a sourece of power to me as a person.

You are the best in the world, i give it up to you guys.. I LOVE YOU Susie and Otto Collins, GREAT JOB.

I've always had problems on how to communicate effectively to my partner. It was always the reason of our misunderstandings for the past 3 yrs. I can't calm down especially if im so full of anger that i often say the wrong things to him everytime. And now our relationship is at stake beause of this and my being jealous as well.

Your blogs about 'jealousy' really helped me a lot and im sure i badly need the "Magic Relationship Words" ebook and audio program more than anyone else.

I want to change, but i dont know where and how to start. I hope you can help me.

Hi, I have just recently seen your material because, well I have a problem with jealousy. I know it started as a teenage girl when basically my heart got broken. In relationships after this one I have never been able to trust anyone, even my own friends.

I seem to keep getting hurt time and time again, and my jealousy increases more everytime. I have a very low self esteem and constantly wonder if my partner is cheating, thinking of cheating, or already has and I just haven't caught him out.

I tired of feeling worthless and know that I can feel better about myself and improve my relationship if only I could control my jealousy, because at the moment it consumes my life.

I need this free to help me with my struggle with jealousy and would love to get started on improving myself and my relatioships.
Thank you.

Hi! I'd love to read your book in order to develop better and healthier relationships. Thanks. Wish you well!

I am a regular reader of your messages and i have improve in my communication skills in my relationship ,but i feel i need more to make enough progress.

I have been reading your articles ever since i came to know about it and it has helped me a lot in my relationships they never used to work but for now they working and going on so fine so i know that the book will help me a lot..

Hi guys

This book would, I believe make a world of a difference in my life. I cannot begin to explain to you the hurt I've caused and gone through myself because of my miscommunication.

I am forever saying this that just seem to come out the wrong way. I never mean for my words to hurt anyone, but because of the way I might say it, or what I say, people take it up the wrong way.

I'm not very good at expressing my feelings, and mostly rather keep them to myself until I cannot take it anymore, and it all comes out at once. Taking this into consideration, with the fact that I don't know how to express myself accurately, or use the right word at the right time, causes me to look and feel very unhappy. I'm a very quiet person who keeps to them self, out of fear that should I try explain something to someone dear to me, or just say how I feel, that they would take it up the wrong way, that I would hurt their feelings or make them mad. This is especially taking a toll on my relationship with my boyfriend whom I have been seeing for 2 years. I sometimes fear he is going to wake up and realize he's had enough, and I would lose him forever.

I am at my last straw here. I have tried everything to improve my situation, but nothing seems to get me out of my shell. Therefore, I would LOVE to win your book, and as I said, I believe it would really help improve my relationship with my family, friends and boyfriend.

Kind regards

Tanic

My marriage ended just over four years ago. We probably made most of the mistakes you've mentioned in your newsletters and articles. It seemed like my whole world ended at the time and I felt powerless to do anything about it. Since that time I've been working on me and I know that for me to have any power at all in life I need to accept total responsability for everything that "happens" to me.

Happily my ex-wife and I are still friends and I believe that in itself is worth celebrating. I would dearly love to give any future relationship the best possible chance for a happy outcome.

Being the sort of person who finds it difficult to be emotionally intimate and express the real me for fear of rejection I really would appreciate the help your wonderful new resource could give me.

Thanks for all you do and God bless.

Hi

I love her so much but communication is a big problem....I need help and i believe that your program will assist my relationship. I need to get it right the 1st time each time

Hi there,I hope I can win because I really need it. I'm a student and I don't have a credit card. I have a relationship problem for 3 months.

I had tried everything I can. I read all the newsletter from everywhere. But it seems like my relationship go worst. My ex seems like hating me more. I simply don't know what to do.

I don't know what to trust or what not to trust anymore.This is the last program I would like to try if I get it. I hope I really will get it and get some useful information. I would do my best for my relationship because I believe that once a friend, forever a friend. Even my relationship cannot be saved, I still hope that I have a friend back. Thank you.

thanks for the opportunity.

I never knew there is a website on relationship that brings to life dead marriages & relationship until yesterday when i was surfing through the net. I really thank God for your life.

I believe the magic relationship words will do my marraige a good favour. My marraige is two years old but i have jealousy in me to the extent that i always check through my spouse mobile phone to know who contacts him and who he contacts. Also i needed the right words to say as he always acused me of not knowing how to talk. please help me out of this mess.

I think Magic Relationship Words would be a great addition to my collection. I never suffered from jealousy in previous relationships regardless of how my partners acted. Nor was i jealous during the first few years of marriage to my "soulmate", then when our first child arrived and i started thinking what i had to lose should my wife decide to stray, then 13 months later my second child and even more nightmare feelings. Because i had no one to talk to due to the fact that i was embarrased about how i was feeling, it seemed the right option to blame my wife and say that she was doing the things i was thinking which put an awful lot of strain on our previously perfect marriage. This is when i found your website... I couldnt believe that the information on your website was not about me..as it described exactly what i was going through and obviously what a huge number of other people were in the same situation.

With your help, i set out to get my perfect life back. We are now 3 years down the line and have our 3rd son who is now 15 weeks old, our marriage is really good again, not quite perfect but on the way.

Like i said earlier, Magic Relationship Words would be a welcome addition to our relationship but even without it i would like to thank you so much for your invaluable help, not just from me but also my wife and children.

Hi Susie & Otto

First i would like to take this opportunity to thank you both for your wonderful advices.I always look forward to reading your mail everyday. It gives me the courage to move on. I'm a single mother of 34 and i've been single for over a year now. I've met this wonderful guy and i want the relationship to flourish. I'm confident that the Magic Relationship Word will indeed help me in keeping and maintaining this relationship this time.I really need to better my life.I know it will help me one way or another.

Thank You in advance. Awaiting to receiveing your ebook and the daily emails.

Thanks again.

Lina

Your new book looks great.

I would love to win a copy of 'magic relationship words' as your emails have already and will hopefully continue to help me understand not only my relationship with my partner but mostly helping me to understand my relationship with myself.
I would love to move on from my fears and insecurities so that my new relationship is a long and happy one.

Thank you for your time.

Hi, I read your e.mails and books from the Uk and as a clinical psychologist I have enjoyed your approach to marital and family issues and have found your ideas so useful not only with people I work with but also in my own life.

Communicating well is a life long learning process and I am always learning and would like to learn more.

I would love to win as I am a survivor of domestic violence and next time I enter a relationship - I want to be able to love and be loved.

I really believe this will help me get the very best out of a new relationship and get it right so there is fulfillment and a partnership not a one sided controlled environment.

I am so interested in your new book. I have been thru divorce after 10 yrs, alot due to major communication issues. I am in a relationship now of almost 2 yrs with someone not really interested in communication improvement.

I would love more insight for this relationship or any future ones should this one not improve fast. I have jealousy issues, with good reason in my eyes. Thanks for all your insightful emails.

Shannon

VA

Would love to read every word!

Words have so much power! In every word is a hidden world... to me words should be said with respect, honesty, sincerity, and it's a great way to love...

May your book be a blessing to the winner... could the winner please contact me.... lol

I purchased "NO MORE JEALOUSY" a few months ago and it worked miracles in my life. I was able to overcome the jealousy that was distroying my relationship.

However, we still have serious communacation problems. We really love each other, but don't know how to overcome this challenge. It seems no matter how hard we try, it ends badly when we try to talk about our issues. I was hoping this new book would help us. Whether I win or not, thank you for changing my life for the better.

Susan Jones
Pennsylvannia

If it wasnt for reading all your articles my fiance and I would not be together now.

Thank you so much! I hope we win a copy and keep going in the right direction. (we need all the help we can get..)

I would like to win this book because of the problems I'm having in my marriage now.

Over the past year your site and the e-mails you sent me have help get my husband back home, now we are talking but some things I can't get through, it is like a wall is between us. Please consider me for this free offer it may be this book can show me how to talk to him. Thank you for all the e-mails.

Your information is great! I'd love to win a copy!

Hello
I found your website a few years ago, during a bad break up, hoping to learn how to be better in my next relationship. I have loved reading your comments and advice, because they are so positive and have truly helped me to be better.

Each relationship has been better, but there's always more work to be done! My current relationship could use some magic words! We are both trying to be better communicators and be more open and honest with each other. Perhaps magic words could take our relationship to the next level!
Thank you and keep the advice coming!
-Sue

Hi Susie and Otto
I am in love with the someone I am with him now, but we have a big problem because we don't have a better way to communicate. I think we are both from a dificult realtionship and we still have the problem about that. If I can win that book it will save our relationship. Thank you.

I am so hopeful to win one of these. I love all the daily emails and I have learned so many great relationship tips and techniques from the Collins'

Lisa S. Midland, MI

It's one thing to say, "we have to communicate more, and we have to communicate better", but then it becomes a matter of "how do we do that? What are the actual words we say?"
Let's face it; some of us are more articulate than others, and if we came from a place where we have a lot of "evolving" to do, we can often be at a loss for words. Most of us use not only the vocabulary but the vocal inflection of those that raised us.

It's what we know! If it didn't work for them, how is it supposed to work for us?

We are creating a new paradigm for how to conduct ourselves in relationship, and you two are showing us how to do that.

I am co-parenting a wonderful 12 year old daughter, and she is going to learn this stuff from the get-go. Yes, communication has to be taught...

I did your jealousy program and was able to move out of a place that I had been stuck in for 20 years. Thanks for the work that you are continuing to do.

Hi there,

I love the email you sent me everyday and has helped us in our relationship very much.

I have a lot of work to do in my relationship and that is why I want to win the e-book.

I think that you guys do wonderful work.

Keep it up.

Kind regards

Adele Meyer

I always have enjoyed reading your emails sent to me, especially since our marriage has hit so many snags the last few years.
I hope I win, as this new book of yours sounds very informative as well.

hi!

I wanna win d contest and get a copy of dat book!

bcozz ..
I'm a student pursing my education..at times I face many problems becoz of d so called JEALOUSY>!
I'm a frustrationg,short tempered person..hence forth I need to maintain a consistency in all aspects of mah weaknesses!!
So,I prefer dis book fr myself:)

I like to win the book, because I liked so much the emails I received from you giving people hope for a better relationship and also, a better life.

Am going to marry this year 2009 that is why i need this book to be next to me in all my life.

God bless you all for your work.

juma From Kenya- NAIROBI

I would love a copy, my boyfriend and I are trying to give our relationship a second chance. We do "talk on eggshells," but we are both making the effort to take a pause, and consider what it is we are really feeling and wanting to say.

I've taken the information to heart, and have taken responsibility for my actions and reactions. It is hard to do. Worth it as we're building our trust, and becoming closer.

My partner and I have what could be called a "perfect relationship" to the naked eye, but behind closed doors we talk all the time, but we don't feel we communicate as well as we could.

It's easy to maintain surface love and communication, with "I love yous" and "how was your day" since most of us are conditioned that way, but understanding the truth behind the need for intimacy and security, and finding out how to truly satisfy that need would be bordering amazing.

I feel your program would help us get that tool we need to break the surface and come out on top. Thanks for your blog, it's so helpful and well written.

I would like to win because I was married and divorced due to infidelity on my ex's part, and now it has affected other relationships as well as my current relationship.

We plan on getting married and while things are good, I know it could be better and I the emails that I have received from you so far have only confirmed what it is we need to do to have a lasting, loving relationship. It feels good to know that I am not alone in what I feel and that it can be different! Keep up the great work!

I could use your book if I can get my foot out of my mouth long enough,it seems it is always in there.don't know when to keep quiet or say the right thing,so you see I have this hoof an mouth disease. your book will do me good.

i would luv to win this book brcuz my husband had several internet and telephone affairs and we r tryin desperatly to rebuild our relationship. its more difficult for us because we live 1,200 miles apart.he lives in mississippi and i in ontario canada.so ANY help we can get is much much appreciated.

Susie and Otto,
I have been a subscriber to your newsletter for quite a while and have so much appreciated all of the very specific communication advice you share with your readers. I have already been putting in practice a couple of the "magic words" you teach about -- that is, never say "Just get over it!" when your spouse is struggling with jealousy, and a very helpful one for my hubby and I has been, "I know it's not your intention, but this is how I feel when you... (fill in the blank)."

My hubby and I have been married for over 21 years and have seen MANY of our friends divorce over the years. We are very committed to keeping our own marriage together and to helping others as much as we can as well. We write about romance and marriage at our blog www.romanceadvice.net. I would LOVE to win a copy of your book so my hubby and I can review it and share it with lots of other people as well. From subscribing to your newsletter I already know the book will be excellent! Blessings to you both, and thanks for all you do.

Hi,

I love reading the emails that i get from you and find the information so useful in my relationship.

Im in a long distance relationship where communication is vital. me and my partner often find we have gotten the wrong end of the stick with something we have said. So i think the ebook would be priceless.

Keep up the good work,its people like yourself that make dating so much easier for everyone else, because you are willing to share your knowledge.
Nice one :-)

Magic Relationship Words:
It will help me to win more friends and create a bonding relationship with the One I love and I can apply those words in other areas of my life such as business, relationship with myself, my siblings, my co-workers,etc...

I will speak to other people about your e-book and at the same time to make this world a more friendly place to live.

I would really enjoy this book. My finance` and I have been togather for 14 years, and most of the time, it's good.

However when we fight..he says it's the way "I say things (or vice versa)", that irritate him (or me). It would be nice to NOT have that particular problem for a change!

After 11 years of an intimate relationship he is drifting away and I do not know how to impress him and how to put my feelings in words! I think your new book would help me greatly!

I was in a 22 year marriage, had two wonderful children but was very unfulfilled for all of those years.

I knew I was not going to spend the rest of my life with my husband but didn't know exactly when or how it would end. Out of the blue I met a man and I tell you it was love at first site, something I never believed in. My parents had a horrible relationship and was not fun to watch growing up. So there was no example for me to follow.

My marriage was no where near as bad in the ways my parents were but it was just there. No communication we both went our own ways, just two people living together. So when I met this other person it was so wonderful.I left my husband within two months and we are really making a go of it. We love being together and enjoy each others company so much, everything is perfect except he has a jealousy issue. I find myself using "get over it" and other words that I know don't help at all.

I have purchased your "stop talking on eggshells" and it had helped me a lot. I have also tried to get him to order "no more jealousy" but he hasn't yet. I really believe this new book would help things on my end and I will more than likely purchase it even if I don't win because it sounds like a wonderful book with great information.

I believe this book would aid me in being better able to say the right thing to my husband when the insecutiry issues come up. He is very insecure due to the way he has been treated in past relationships. I have used your advice many times with great success. Thank you for all of your great work.

I have been in a many long term relationships.. my longest was 4 years. I'm currently dating a 21 year old guy..whom I have SO much fun with. But when we argue..sometimes I feel so frustrated because I just can't get through to him and I wish I could say or do something that would catch his attentions and make him listen to me..I try so hard to look at things from his point of view but I feel like he just can' do the same.

Our arguments really put a damper on our happiness..and I am hoping something like this book will help us learn how to work together better and communicate effectively. Thanks for all you guys do.. you're awesome!

I have been so unsuccessful in my relationships, it's not funny. I have subscribed to your emails and that has helped me identify some of my flaws and some of the unacceptable behaviors I let myself be subjected to.

I have applied your advice where appropriate and now I feel that there is hope that maybe some day I can get what I'm looking for in the romance area of life.

If this new program is as helpful as the advice I have been reading in your emails, I know that it will help me improve even further where I have been lacking. I hope to be one of the lucky winners. I need all the help I can get.

I'm in a nearly 4 year old relationship (I'm 56) and communication is nill. Everyone says "oh, he's european and they don't talk". He's only said "I love you" to me a few times and he was not sober at the time. He doesn't even give compliments (not even his teenage children) I need to learn what you have to offer, even if I'm not with this man.

Personaly I can not think of another person I know who could use this book more than me after the divorce that left me froze in time wondering what happened because she never told me why she left or anyone else that I know of.IN fact she hasn't even spoke to me in three years. I seem to get over it but let something trigger a memory and bam I am back to square one.

So I admit that i need some help with this mess I have gotten myself into and maybe the book will at least give me some edge to getting out of this slump. None of this was easy to admitt .

You want me to win this book, because as a sex therapist, life and relationship coach in Miami, Fla I have introduced all of my clients/ contacts to you and Susie, and I feel I can help make this book even more successful

Wow! What a great offer! I would love to win your book because plain and simple, I need help with the right words to say in my relationship with my man.

My heart says one thing and my mouth seems to come out with something else. But to be honest, after reading all about the other entries, I want everyone to win!!! There are some who sound like they could use your wonderful book more than me. We all can use communication guidance because we want the best for each other and just even looking for help says a whole lot.

Good luck with your new book!! I would love to read it for I know I'll be be enlightened!

Hi Susie and Otto
I would love to win Your ebook as I am embarking on an amazing journey of commitment. After 55 years as a batchelor,

I am going to live with a wonderful lady I met a year ago. Our feelings are deep. and our love is true. I know that I lack experiance, and any help I can get will be awesome. To have a guide to help me from putting mt foot in the mouth through ignorance would be incalcuable.

So help me, and I will make the world a better place with my true love in our "being" Thank you.

I'm in a 4 years relationship and he's always complaining with my choices of word. Im so insensitive, am trying to change for my partner but I cant.

I think the book can help me a lot to change my behavior/attitude toward my partner.

Dear Susie and Otto,

I have read other materials on relationships and communications but most have left a lot of unanswered questions for me. I may get a small "nugget" of information from other resources but they really leave me hanging.

I find your "Stop Talking on Eggshells" and correlating materials, to be a fantastic resource for learning to communicate more effectively and at a deeper level.

My boyfriend and I were having problems communicating on a deeper level to the point where he felt like he was overwhelmed and he needed a break. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. I truly believe that the universe brought us together and if I even began to explain the series of strange events surrounding our union, it would knock your socks off.

The news was devastating to me and rough on him as well. We then started fighting through text and email and have been playing "the quiet game" ever since. It's war of the wills. But I am ready, willing and able to swallow my pride, and "lay down my wood" I am ready to take 100% responsibility for my part. Your materials offer great insight into dealing with just these issues. I'm ready to open up to him and start taking down the walls one brick at a time.

I feel that "Magic Relationship Words" will be a great addition to the materials I already have of yours and will give me a great starting point in communicating in a way that I have never been able to do before in any relationship in the past. And even if things don't work out between us I will be prepared for whatever is laying around the corner. It's either this or something better. :-)

Cheers!

Kari

The business that I am in is all about relationship and I do a lot of training with my group about people skills and I would love to win your book. I just became aware of the two of you and have already been sharing your information.

I should win one of your five copies to better myself. Plain and simple, I know I am not the perfect person, though I strive to better myself and my relationship with others. I've been an email buddy with you both for several years.

Each tidbit of information you offer is another step towards introspection. I have three children whom I adore and always look for improvement for myself. I believe children learn by example and experience.

I want to be able to show my children that good patterns of communication can be accepted and learned by their parents. Each of us have a responsibility to better ourselves and our relationships.

We have valued your past information and would accept your gift wholeheartedly. Thank you.

i would like to win a copy of your book so i can rewiew better ways to talk to my partner. we are separated at the monment and there are 2 girls age 4 and half years and 14 months.

i am at crossroads in my mind wether or not it is worth getting back together only for the sake of the children or if it is really what i want to because we do not have good communication at all with one another and have talked about couple counselliing in the near future. he is extra controlling in many areas and doesn't see it or believes that he is but all of the people around us see that he is and he is extremely jealous and possesive for no reason!

i understand how he feels because i used to be that way in my past relationship but i am not jealous or posessive to him in this relationship. he lasks trust in me and calls me numerous times a day just to check up on me! even when he goes out and i stay home he still calls me?

He wants me to drop all my friends; people i have known for 15 years and i have only kjnown him for 3 years?

i dont know if we can live together again for the sake of the children or if we should just stay apart.

i told him we can do this together separetly or separatly together! the children miss him and we are both hurting but im not sure if it will be better or worse if he comes back. I am not sure if a book like this will help but it might be a long shot in the dark!

It took me quite a few tries to finally know myself enough to attract the right relationship for me. Now that I have met Mr. Right For Me, I would love to keep enhancing our relationship by saying the best words. My hubby is very analytical and I'm very emotional. Thanks for all of your wonderful work!

I will never forget that first thing I learned from you: That jealousy is simply fear. In my relationship, we struggled with my jealousy, some of which I had good reason for and some which I didn't. As soon as I read those words, I realized what my emotion actually meant. All along I knew that deep, hard, spiking feeling inside only caused our relationship to go under - and we almost failed. A year and a half later, we have married, and plan on spending forever working to make each other as happy as happy can be.

Even though we are happy now, we are still new at this, and we still have intense fights, where we always say the wrong things. But neither of us want to hurt the other - we want to learn how to communicate without saying hurtful things. We are in our 20's and willing to learn how to last well into our later years.

Thank you for all you have done. The love I have for my husband has been so intense from day one that I almost ended it all, simply because i didn't know what my feelings meant and how my words as well as my actions could push him further away. With your help, we are closer than ever. Whoever you offer this to better use it and use it wisely, because it is good advice that truly does help keep couples together.

I am in a new relationship(1.5 months) that has made me very happy. However, I always seem to jinx my relationships in the 3rd month and the man breaks up with me. I want this relationship to last and really need to know those words so I don't screw up this relationship with a fantastic man.

This is my first real relationship--where I am hopeful he is the one--since my divorce in'95. Please help me keep this love.

I have been married for 22 years, and have been with my husband for 27 years. My husband is moving out next Friday. He tell me that he feels empty inside, and doesnt feel love for me the way a husband should. I am confused as to what to say to him, or how to get though to him. what do I say to the kids, What do I say to help them though this. What do I say to myself? I need heelp, I need words of wisdom to help my situation. I want to work on things with my husband, but I am at a lost for words. I dont know what the right thing is to say, or what is the wrong thing to say. I would appreciate having your book to help me know how to talk to my husband. So I will be able to help us both and we can get back together and live a long and happy life together. Thank you for reading my request.

I would love to win this book because I have
been on a constant rollercaoster with the man I love. We have been together for eight years total. We lived together a few years before we got married. After being married for 2 years he informed me that he was no longer happy and he was moving out. Three days later he filed for divorce.
It took nine months for our divorce to be final. He moved back in a month before the divorce our
divorce became final.
We were living together on the day of our divorce. One week ago, he told me
he is no longer happy and doesn't love me. I am crushed once again. I need all the advice I can get.

I think your new book and audio program "magic relationship words" would help me to speak my truth in a more effective manner in all of my relationships, whether romantic or not. I tend to bottle up my true feelings and then by the time I express my true self, I wind up using words that harm the relationship. Growing up with dysfunctional relationship roles models has led me to not honor myself and to not speak my truth until it's too late. I've also chosen words that don't heal the situation. I believe your guidance would greatly help me to achieve speaking my truth in a better way.

I really need this ebook, because I have noticed that I am saying some words carelessly, just expressing myself and sometimes it leads me to difficult situations. I would like to know some "Magic Relationship Words" which can help me be more successful in my personal life.
Thank you Susie and Otto :)

I recently bought your jealousy package which has helped me so much already. However, I do still have issues talking to my boyfriend about anything and would love to be able to communicate effectively and know how to say the right thing and get across exactly what I mean to him. I struggle so much with this and usually end up getting so frustrated that I'll end up snapping or calling him a name or something else stupid. And I know, even as I do it, it won't do anything to help but it's the only way my mind can "resolve" the issue and relieve my frustration. It's rediculous and I don't know how to stop or say the right thing! I think he could probably do with the help as well as he doesn't tend to communicate to me much, possibly because of how I so often react and also because he has problems with saying things the right way so he doesn't bother trying!

I love him very much though and he treats me amazingly despite our difficulties in communicating to eachother. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I am so worried I'm going to lose him.

I am a student and genuinely can't afford any more of your packages although I really would like to as I think there is still so much more to learn from you. Oh, and I'm not a "typical" go-out-and-get-drunk student so I'm not throwing money away on that. I just live in an expensive part of the UK and give what small amount of money I can spare to charities.

In the future, when I hopefully have a job and an income I will definately buy more of your work. But I'm worried that in the meantime I'm going to irreversibly damage my relationship and anything I can read or do to prevent this would be such a relief and very much appreciated.

Kind regards,

Katrina

My fiancee is a quiet person. We've been together for one and half years but sometimes I can't even read his mind. He never told me when he has problem, and when it happens he often abruptly blame me I don't care about him. How can I help him if he doesn't say anything? I’ve talked to him a lot, that he can trust me to share his problem with, and I will keep his secrets. But none of my words made him change. So I stop talking.
But he’s a very, very good listener. I feel it’s unfair he always pay attention and he’s willing to listen to every of my problems, but he seldom share his problem with me.

He seldom say “I love you” but I know he loves me very much from what he’s done. I think our relationship is great, and we’re having good times. But we’re both quiet persons, and we often don’t know what to say. Sometimes we talk each other this way “do you have a new idea to fill this weekend?”, and I said “ no”, so he said “OK, so be it”. We often lost words to say, to express our feelings. I think that’s the real reason I want to get this “Magic Words”, and also give it to my fiancee so we can read, learn, and reflect together… to speak love :-)

Hi Susie and Otto,
Im a great fan of u both, Im hooked on to ur emails and newsletters. Dont have words to express,its all good stuff that u advise. I am reading the stop talking on eggshells and its helping loads. I share ur advice with my friends and family too. Im really excited about ur new book magic relationship words...I can just imagine what goodies and treasures lie in that book. I do wish u wud give away the free copy to me, I wud truly cherish the book and apply it purposefully in my life!I really hope I win it and dont have to wait to save enough to buy it after a long time.
Thanks,God bless u both.

Well Im 37 years old and was never taught the communication tools that would help me in relationships, whether personal or professional. If I get upset or fearful, I get defensive, I become cutting and will say things I know I dont mean but I say them to hurt the other person because I feel hurt. Its a horrible way to live. I always hate the things I have said and wish I didnt say them. I want to better communicate my feelings and my wants and needs. I dont want to get jealous and become upset and then say things I dont really mean.

Dear Susie and Otto,
My partner and I "met" you via your "7 Intimacy Secrets" and have been following your emails and courses. There is a possibility that our relationship will end because we don't seem to be able to get past this hurdle: I express feelings and fears and he becomes defensive and accusative. That's our pattern. If there is a way I could express my fears so that he doesn't become defensive and if he could find a way to quell his defensiveness in order to reassure me, it would be make a huge difference. I would love to win your e-book and start trying to build a new path to a strong relationship.

Dear Susie and Otto,

Thank you so much for all of your wonderful information over the years.
I would love a copy of your new book, "Magic Relationship Words". I need help understanding how to handle my feelings when these hurtful words are said to me. I was very jealous over a relationship (working?) that my husband had a couple of years ago with another woman. Although I am not jealous anymore, the damage that was done to my self esteem was compounded by my husbands hurtful words. To this day, I do not think he understands how much hurt and damage can be caused by "mere words".

Thank you again.
Sincerely,
Julia

I really enjoy and learn from you guys. I want to win this book because sometimes I think of the right thing to say in my mind and when I say it it comes out wrong. I am at a crisis in my relatinship and don't know if I can get all that you say I can have in a relationship.

I am in a faltering relationship( after 10 yrs of marriage) because we don't talk well together.

It may be too late for us, but I'd like the book to make sure I never end up here again.

Communication is key and even I have that problem.

I try but, I am not always successful. Choosing the right words is absolutely essential.

Thanks for the opportunity to possibly win and put the contents to practice.

I am in dire need right now, been waiting each and every week for the emails, read each one with concentration, i think you are both the bees knees.just great.

I would like to win this book as it would be like being reborn again it will make me realise that we come into the world with nothing at all but we can have something to hold on to and love whilst in the world and go out of the world with something. that something will be what we have all read and learned and taken on board and hopefully with the people we love and want to stay with but can have difficult times.

I wish everybody who enters well and good luck. fingers crossed for me. thank u for everything u have helped me to understand so far. jo.x

I need much help! i have major trust issues and my recent boyfriend cheated on me.

I have chosen to stay with him, (which is probably out of codependency) but things have only gotten worse between us. neither of us are good at communication, he doesnt talk, and i am very sarcastic.

I think that while trying to work on the jealousy aspect, it would do a world of good to learn how to talk properly. considering we are in a long distance relationship as well!

Hi Susie and Otto,

thankyou for your work. I am from Australia, and have purchased a few of your programs. I think you are both great, and I get a lot of help from your advice. Kathryn.

HELP!!! Can you help a reformed PEOPLE PLEASER?

Most of my life I felt I didn't have a right to have a voice. I became a people pleaser, so people would like me. It worked... somewhat. Most people liked me, but I didn't
like myself very well.
I thought of myself as genuine, but I wasn't authenticly ME.

Now that I have found my voice, and attempt to communicate tactfully, loved-ones are reacting like, "Who is this woman? And what did you do with my mother, my sister, my wife,etc?" My tender-hearted little sister asked me what was wrong in our relationship. We used to
be very close. I tried to be brave and explain to her.
She was so hurt that she hasn't answered my phone calls for eight months! YIKES! We BOTH are hurting!

One of our children quit coming to visit. Another son will talk, but he is very angry! I thought I was a loving, kind, compassionate person. BIG TROUBLE!!!

As I have tried to improve the relationship with my sweetheart, I've used your approach, "I know it's not your intention, but..." It is working like MAGIC! As our communication improves, there is more depth to our relationship. Intimacy has more meaning, and we are enjoying each other's company more. I have high hopes about mending, or at least improving, several relationships with people I love (and others I want to learn to love). I believe your new book offers answers I NEED!!!

Gwen S. Logan, Utah

Hi,
It was only last week I was hoping to find a good book to help me change my words to more positive.I cannot believe it reached me this week : ) My parents were only good at critising each other, they never paid compliments to eachother. They did not know how to say it nicely.Naturally, I was hurting my ex-b.friends, i had many failed relationships. I want to cahnge now, i am ready to learn a positive communication skills and have a good relationship.Thanks to Susie and Otto.

Dear Susie & Otto =)

I have 2 say, that i lost the love of my life 2 months ago. But I do not give up. I fight for him. I give him time and let him go and I am working very hard to proof him that I am worthy 2 be loved.
And I believe in me. So I would love 2 have this great book just 2 do everything right, when I gothim back. ;-)
Because I do not want 2 loose him again. He is my life.

In Love,
Anita :-)

Hello to both of you...
For over 18 years I have been leaving behind victims of my jealousy. I have been engaged once, and in several serious relationships since.

My jealously proved to be too much for those individuals and they left. I have lost what could have been a soul mate, a true love, etc. I am currently in another serious relationship. I have too often blamed others for my own jealousy and now it is time for a change.

I can't handle what is going on in my head anymore. And, my new lover is way too important to me to let this cycle come around again. I need change and I sincerely believe this will help me. I am ready to admit that it's MY problem. I have my toolbox ready...and you have the tools I need to fill it! Thank you, Amanda

I have been reading your blog for about a year when I was so frustrated with my relationship problems and desperately needed help.

Your advice offered comfort and helped many times but I have not yet bought any of your materials. My partner of 5 years cheated and I left him but we have been trying to put things back together for the past 6 months.

We have been on a merry go round of crazy emotions ever since and we constantly say the wrong things to each other causing set backs in our progress. I have anger and jealousy and he gets defensive and impatient so there are communication mistakes and hurt feelings.

If we win this program, I hope it will put us on the right track and show us a better way to communicate our needs and emotions. Your advice has been so helpful so far, that I believe that this could open doors for us to progress in the right direction. You and your information have given me hope. Thank you very much for all your help!

I am in a unhappy but stable relationship where we do not do anything together but live together I dont think i even have any feelings for him any more Your words of encouragement and helpfulness still give me hope and motivation that I can have something more in all my relationships! Thank you!

I have just recently found your programs and started receiving your emails.

I am currently in a eight and a half year relationship that I probably should have ended years ago but I've stayed because I love him and because I have an attachment disorder, which I've just recently found out about. there has been a lot of damage done in our relationship over the years and we now have trust issues.

(i have a difficult time trusting him and believing him sometimes). but I'm willing to try, however we also have communication issues. that's why I thought your new book about magic words would help us to communicate and understand each other better and possibly help us to save our relationship. thank you so much for what you do.

You obviously help so many people with your programs and I hope you continue. God Bless you. Sincerely Danette in KY

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