Romantic Ideas Using "Magic"
We thought we'd heard just about everything until we saw this...
It was an ad for guys about how to seduce the "hottest" women by doing magic tricks.
Now, if you've been reading any of our materials, you know that we are NOT about seduction for the sake of manipulation.
We are about love, juiciness, aliveness, passion and connection.
But after we mulled over this magician's idea, we thought that there was something that we all could learn from it to make our relationships come alive.
If you're like most people, you're probably wondering how could it be that there's something to be learned from this guy?
Yes, he's using "tricks" to get the attention of beautiful women and...
Yes, he's teaching guys (gullible ones) that seduction and tricks are the way to a girl or woman's heart....
Once you get past all this-- he's doing something out of the ordinary that we can all learn from that can have a truly positive impact on our relationships.
Let us repeat this so we make sure you get it.
He's doing something out of the ordinary.
That's right, that's what we're suggesting you do in your relationships--
Do something out of the ordinary.
In the case of this magician-- he's teaching guys that you can get the attention of another person you might
want to meet by doing something you wouldn't ordinarily do.
Whether you are currently in a relationship or not, choose to spice up your life by doing something that is different from what you might normally do.
If you are single and want to be in a close, connecting, loving relationship, go somewhere to meet people who are like-minded--somewhere you haven't gone before. Even if you connect with someone who can be a new friend, take a chance and open yourself to a new friendship.
The two of us met at a spiritual study group in our small town and had known each other as acquaintances for a couple of years before we got together as a couple. You just never know what will happen when you open yourself to new experiences!
If you are dating, choose to do some things that are out of the ordinary. Try some new things, go some new places and have fun.
If you are in a committed relationship or marriage and want to get closer, take this opportunity to spice things up with a new and different experience. It doesn't have to be a huge, planned or expensive event. It can be something very small but whatever you choose, focus on increasing connection, passion fun, and friendship in your relationship.
This morning, during our connecting time, we tried a new way of "melting" together.
Did it take much preparation?
No--it just took our desire to keep our relationship alive and growing along with a little experimentation and openness. In fact, we are always experimenting with ways to connect with each other and keep our relationship hot.
So our advice to you is to continually find new ways to bring "magic" into your life and your relationships.
Start small and do one thing that can possibly bring you more of what you want.
