A Romantic Idea for Busy Couples
Keeping the spark alive in today's busy world can seem to be an insurmountable problem. Here's a common question that we received and we know that many people share in this woman's frustration--
"We used to have a spark, but after 21 years its now gone. I want to know how to get it back as i don't feel excited any more. How can he want to make love to me and think of me after 21 years?"
Here's a romantic tip, as well as our advice...
We've said it many times, but we'll say it again--rekindling the spark that was once between you takes two things:
1. A commitment and desire to rekindling the spark
2. Consciously opening your heart and doing some things that will rekindle spark
We'll add a third thing--Adopting a sense of fun and adventure around this topic.
So what's our "romantic idea," especially for couples who want to rekindle spark?
"Make love" in moments throughout the day!
We know what you might be saying.."I don't have time and I'm too tired to make love throughout the day. Besides, I rarely see him/her!"
We suggest that you first make the most out of the time that you have together. If it's 15 minutes when you both get home in the evening, take that 15 minutes and connect with your eyes and even your hands.
You can "make love" in the car when you are traveling--even with kids in the back seat. Sometimes we "make love" and connect with our hands when we are on long trips. Our hands lightly touch as we open our hearts to each other. It's our intention to give and receive love in this way and it certainly keeps us connected.
Be inventive and playful. You can even do this at the breakfast table. What we've discovered is that so many people crave loving touch and they don't get enough of it. We suggest that if you want to begin getting your spark back, take a step (which sometimes takes courage) to do something different and shake up your routine.
Start now to begin feeling alive and excited again.
