If gift-giving between the two of you is a challenge, you might want to propose doing what we do to celebrate
our birthdays and holidays.

We choose to give each other a romantic treat of our choice.

Here's how it works...

Each of us decides what would be a delicious, romantic treat to celebrate each other, the occasion and bring us closer.

Here are some romantic ideas that we and others have used that take the stress out of gift-giving and actually make it fun:

1. A massage session that can be simply lovingly massaging your partner's shoulders, feet, or hands.
Your massage session can be as sexual as you want it to be. Just ask for what you want and honor what
your partner wants.

2. Buy a really good piece of chocolate and eat it together by eating very small bites, very slowly. Take an hour at least. Look at each other as you do it and just allow the wonderful taste to penetrate every part of you and your partner.

3. Play special music for your loved one, maybe music that means something to the two of you. Once in awhile
we will have what we call "music night" where we choose music from our collection that is meaningful for us and
touches us.

4. Go to a favorite spot that means something to the two of you. As part of our holiday gift to each other, we are visiting the place where we had our first date which is also where we were married. It's a wonderful spot in Hocking Hills called Ash Cave and holds such good vibrations for us. We're simply going to go and sit and kiss.

Those are just some of the romantic ideas that we use to take away the stress of finding the "right" gift and giving what is most important to each of us--time to re-connect with each other.

We invite you to give our ideas a try or be creative and think up your own tantalizing ways to romance your partner or significant other.