October 22, 2015

Can you overdo the compliments?

coupleoncouch136.jpg Hi this is Otto writing today's post and...

Sometimes I wonder if I compliment my wife and partner Susie too much.

I mean... how much is too much?


Because Susie and I are relationship coaches and because I want to know all the latest things that other "experts" are writing about online...

And because I always want to know all the best ideas on how to make my relationship great...

I subscribe to and read A LOT of relationship info both online and offline and I gotta' tell you...

Some of the advice I read online just plain scares me.

It scares me to know that millions of men and women are reading some of the things I read and...

It scares me even more to know that tens of thousands (maybe millions) of men and women actually believe some of the things I see posted online every day.

Take the question of how much is too much when it comes to a man complimenting his wife or girlfriend...

Continue reading "Can you overdo the compliments?" »

September 30, 2015

How to stop worrying and build trust...

womanupsetblonde136.jpg Worrying is one of those things that all of us do.

We find things to worry about in our relationships, lives and even at work and about our finances and yet...

It's NOT helpful...

We sit and we stew and mull things over and agonize about little things and big things in our lives and the only
thing that happens when you worry (even a little bit is...

The little things get bigger and the big things get even bigger (at least in your head.)

Today we've got a a brand new video for you that we just posted on YouTube about How To Stop Worrying About
Everything that you're going to love and you can check it out here--

Video--->>> How To Stop Worrying About Everything (or anything)



If you want some great ideas for building trust in a relationship, below are...

2 quick tips and 2 recommendations for Rebuilding Trust...


Continue reading "How to stop worrying and build trust..." »

September 17, 2015

Communication Fails: The Crazy Things People Try When They Try to Improve Communication

worriedwoman150.jpg Everyone agrees...

Communicating in ways that bring you and your spouse or partner closer together is a good thing.

Communicating in ways that make the important people in your life want to spend more time with you is always
something you should want...


Communicating in ways that bring you more love, connection, passion and desire is something you should want more of rather than less of...

And yet...

Most people do the exact opposite of what will bring them what they want in their love (and other)relationships and
then wonder why their love, the passion and the spark seems to be fading away...

THIS is something we read recently that really impacted us both in its truth and in its simplicity...

"Look for common sense, plain old fashioned common sense."

---Sydney Banks (From The Missing Link)

What we've found is that...

Some people who are usually very smart in other areas of their lives do some of the dumbest things when interacting and communicating with their spouse or partner and then wonder why their love relationship is falling apart.

They just don't use the "plain old fashioned common sense" everyone has inside them.

(We've been there so we know what we're talking about!)

For example:

One woman we talked to recently thought it was a great idea to tell her new partner about how great her previous
lover was and brag about how much he taught her about being great in bed. She then wondered why he pulled away when he felt like he would never be able to measure up to her ex...

Another woman we talked to wondered why her husband was "falling out of love with her" when it hadn't been all
that long since she revealed some VERY private things about him, her and their relationship (he didn't want
revealed) at a party where a good friend of his mother's happened to be...

One man we know almost lost his wife of 14 years (and the mother of his children) because he started confiding in
another woman and getting too close emotionally to her because of their intimate lunchtime conversations that
began with him asking for her opinion about some of the problems he was having at home...

All these people could be considered intelligent but what seemed to be missing for them was something very simple...

Plain, old fashioned common sense!

If we all have this common sense, why do we sabotage our relationships by not using it?

The answer is simple...

We allow fearful, judgmental thoughts to get in the way of communicating from our hearts and connecting with those in our lives.

Today, if fearful or judgmental thoughts come up, quiet your mind and allow your plain, old fashioned common sense
to rise to the surface.

If you do this, you'll find so much love in your life you'll be amazed!

August 19, 2015

Increase the flow of love and money in your life...

riverflow.gif If you're someone who'd like to increase the flow of love and money into your life...

Then we'd like to invite you to our teleseminar and web cast we're doing next Tuesday (8/25) as our guest...

The teleseminar and webcast is called...

"6 Secrets to Increasing the Flow of Love and Money..."

You can sign up here

Again, our presentation is next Tuesday, 8/25 and we'll get started at 8pm Eastern / 5 Pm Pacific time and you can listen in by phone or on the internet (your choice).

If you've got another commitment and can't attend live, there will be a replay available for a limited time only

BUT ...

If you want to increase the flow of love and money into your life--you want to make sure you attend live...


We're going to leave time at the end of the class to answer YOUR specific questions about inviting more love and prosperity.

Click here now and grab your spot for our "6 Secrets for Increasing the Flow of Love and Money" teleseminar and webcast next Tuesday...

July 22, 2015

Relaxing into "flow" in your relationship...

womanswimming.jpg The story we're about to tell you is about something Otto has been doing for years and is not only very real--it's also bordering on the ridiculous...

There's a big love and life lesson here if you're open to it and...

We'll begin by asking you a question...

Is there an area of your life that you're holding on too tightly to a specific outcome and hasn't been working out the way you want it?

If you're nodding your head "yes," you're like most people...

There's something that you just know you'd be happier if it would change or be better--but the harder you try, either nothing changes or it just gets worse.

Recently, Otto got a huge insight around this that could help you have happier relationships and lives that we'd like to share...

Continue reading "Relaxing into "flow" in your relationship..." »

July 10, 2015

Summertime Breakups and Divorces--Why So Many?

couple arguing3sm.jpg Why are there so many break ups and divorces in the summer?

As you can imagine, break ups and divorces happen all year long...

But in our experience, a couple of times a year, they happen more frequently.

Although the highest sales months for our "Should You Stay or Should You Go?" program are January through March, the summer months are a close second.

So, why is that?

Continue reading "Summertime Breakups and Divorces--Why So Many?" »

June 23, 2015

What to do when your man's looking at other women...

In this video, we give you three awesome tips for how to deal with a man who says he loves you, cares about you and wants to be with you and still he likes to oogle, stare at and look too long at other women--especially women
you think are more beautiful or attractive than you.

It's only natural to get upset, angry and jealous when a man does this. After all, if he really loved and cared about you, shouldn't he be looking at you with desire in his eyes instead of another woman?

This is such a complicated issue and it's something men and women who suffer with jealousy issues have to face all the time (or so it seems.)

If you've ever caught your guy looking at another woman and want to know how to deal with this issue with him, here are 3 ways to deal with the issue of a man looking at other women that are not his wife or girlfriend...

Susie & Otto Collins


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